A near death experience at an early age gave me a profound Lust for Life! With FUN as my chief motivator I became a professional theatre artist and for many years moved from state to state and relationship to relationship. I was always the one to end my relationships when I decided that my partner wasn’t _________ enough for me. I filled in that blank many different ways over the years. It was always her that was somehow not enough. I partnered with some truly amazing women that I bailed on when things between us got tricky and we lacked the tools to work through things. When my longing for deeper relational fulfillment led me to The Relationship School, the first nugget that captured my attention was Jayson teaching that in ALL of my relationships, I’VE been the common denominator. From that ‘AHA’ moment on a new conceptualization of my relational life began to form. I’ve learned that I can’t change others, I can only change myself, that conflicts in relationships are normal and that it’s our lack of skill in navigating those conflicts that’s the problem. This holds true for all of our relations. Siblings, parents, friends, neighbors, lovers, colleagues, etc.
I’ve had some awesome teachers and some of the things I have deep experiences with are Native American Shamanism, tantra, physical embodiment, ecstatic and contact improv dance, the dreamtime, plant medicine, yoga, men’s work, grief work, and suicide.
My clients have said: “You helped me to become more focused on my goals, move forward and take action ~ This was unlike any other session I’ve ever done ~ You met me where I was at and created a safe space for me to do some things that I had never done before ~ Your kind gentleness helped me to feel safe even in hard, scary and vulnerable territory ~ I appreciated the humor you brought to our time together. It felt warm and human ~ Your deep insights knocked it out of the park!”
Knowing the things I now know, I’d love to help you to navigate the tricky terrain of the relational challenges in your wondrous life. I’d love to be your Relationship Coach so that you too can prosper, thrive and experience fulfillment. Thanks for being curious and courageous enough to take a leap of faith ~ Let’s do this!