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Get Certified As A Relationship Coach

Deepen The Meaning & Fulfillment In Your Life By Helping Others

Become the kind of relationship coach that gets right to the root of the client’s issue in the first session and helps them start dismantling it through high quality challenge and support.

To be a great relationship coach, you must address 3 things, which are the central pillars of our coaching program:

 

1. Self

You must go inward and deal with the person in the mirror

2. Relationships

You must improve your own relationship awareness and skills

3. Coaching skills and tools

You must acquire coaching skills and tools that get results for your clients

 

Without any one of these 3, you’re setting your clients up for limited results. A great relationship coach is always growing and developing these 3 areas.

Imagine a career that draws on your passion

Imagine a career that draws on your passion for personal growth and relationships, that harnesses your ability to support, challenge, and connect with others, and helps you to develop as a person while you help others to do the same. What if you could earn a living while making an impact on thousands of people’s lives, and even on the future of society and how we treat each other? That’d be pretty cool, right? Well, that job does exist. It’s the job of a relationship coach, and I believe that relationship coaches will play a crucial role in the future of our culture, not only in the U.S., but around the world. A career as a relationship coach can be incredibly fulfilling, both professionally and personally. You can work from home and coach people virtually all over the world. Becoming a relationship coach really could change your life, and it can also change the world.

To be a great relationship coach, you must address 3 things, which are the central pillars of our coaching program:

1. Self

You must go inward and deal with the person in the mirror

 

2. Relationships

You must improve your own relationship awareness and skills

 

3. Coaching skills and tools

You must acquire coaching skills and tools that get results for your clients

 

Without any one of these 3, you’re setting your clients up for limited results. A great relationship coach is always growing and developing these 3 areas.

Imagine a career that draws on your passion

Imagine a career that draws on your passion for personal growth and relationships, that harnesses your ability to support, challenge, and connect with others, and helps you to develop as a person while you help others to do the same. What if you could earn a living while making an impact on thousands of people’s lives, and even on the future of society and how we treat each other? That’d be pretty cool, right? Well, that job does exist. It’s the job of a relationship coach, and I believe that relationship coaches will play a crucial role in the future of our culture, not only in the U.S., but around the world. A career as a relationship coach can be incredibly fulfilling, both professionally and personally. You can work from home and coach people virtually all over the world. Becoming a relationship coach really could change your life, and it can also change the world.

Look around at people. What do you see?

I see a lot of people in pain, suffering, and struggling in their interpersonal relationships. Here are a few highlights:

 

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An estimated 80% of couples are headed in the direction of divorce within their first four to five years of marriage (Source: Gottmans).

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Stress related ailments cost the US $300 billion every year. $100 billion more than what obesity costs.

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7 out of 10 Americans take at least one prescription drug.

 

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1 in every 10 Americans takes an antidepressant.

 

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Loneliness is more lethal than smoking 15 cigarettes per day.

 

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Only 12% of mental health conditions in the DSM-V have a treatment for them.

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The rate of antidepressant use in this country among teens and adults (people ages 12 and older) increased by almost 400% between 1988–1994 and 2005–2008 (Source: National Center for Health Statistics).

 

I don’t know about you, but when I look at those stats, they are sobering. They tell me that behind everyone’s happy Facebook and Instagram pics, people are indeed hurting. It tells me that these people need your help.

It would be great if suffering in the world went away, but conflict and human suffering have been around forever, and I don’t think our species can transcend that.

So, rather than aim for peace and Utopia, I want you to have the chops to help people in the trenches of their daily lives, helping them navigate the difficult people in their lives and help them navigate their relationship to themselves.

A lot of people don’t actually like themselves, or they are unfulfilled.

This is where you come in.

You can improve your natural ability to help others by becoming a Certified Relationship Coach and you can upgrade any old habits of enabling, codependency, or rescuing.

Are you a DPIR Graduate or DPIR Student? Ask for our discounted tuition rates during your interview, after you apply.

BIPOC & LGBTQIA+

Scholarship

 

In 2019, we established the Diversity Outreach Program with a mission to increase diversity among our students and to support inclusion to those who identify as Black, Indigenous, or People of Color (BIPOC) and Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Questioning, and Intersex and Asexual (LGBTQIA+). Over 20 scholarships have been awarded since the inception of this program, and in support of our commitment to inclusivity and diversity, we will be awarding four RCT scholarships to qualified applicants. If you identify with one or more of the criteria, we encourage you to click here and apply. After applying, you will be contacted by our Student Success Coordinator to set up an interview.

 

The World Needs You More Than Ever

 

 

Why do relationship coaches matter? Because 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce, and 3 out of 5 Americans are lonely. We have a loneliness epidemic and a looming mental health crisis. Couples that do conflict well live 10 years longer than couples who don’t. Relationship stress is a chronic disease that’s destroying our quality of life, shortening our lifespan, bankrupting health care systems, and threatening the health of future generations. And our medical model is not prepared to address it. Why?

Because the only way to prevent or reverse the loneliness or mental health epidemic and help people feel empowered in their relationships is by changing how we handle conflict, how we listen, how we parent, how we work with our triggers, and how we communicate our needs.

Traditional therapy is simply not set up to do this and it’s too broad. The vast majority of trauma and mental health issues stem from a relationship issue. The bottom line is we need people who can not only provide support, but also challenge people to transform how they show up relationally. We need empathetic and compassionate people with skills, street-level tools for human connection, and a passion for change.My job is to make sure the coaches have all the training they need to do their jobs so well that they will change the future of society and our interconnectedness with others.

 

As the 80+ year Harvard study suggests, we have reached a new place as a culture where safe, deep, connected human relationships are central to a well-lived life.

Today, the Relationship School’s Relationship Coaching® program is second-to-none.

 

By becoming a Certified Relationship Coach at The Relationship School®, you will:

  • Be trained in Interpersonal Intelligence® the only map that shows how relationships really work and how to do them well
  • Get trained in Present Centered Relationship Coaching®
  • Get the cutting edge education on relationship dynamics from Jayson Gaddis, founder of The Relationship School® (so much has been discovered in the last 6 years… it’s an emerging science!)
  • Identify your own coaching blindspots and get support on how to overcome them
  • Learn why you attract clients that push your buttons and what to do about it (hint: it’s got more to do with you than them!)
  • The truth about liability insurance and what you need to cover yourself
  • And much much more!

 

We stand alone in this program because we have the only true map that clearly defines how relationships work.

These Five Building Blocks of Present Centered Relationship Coaching® will be your guideposts along the way with 7-10 coaching skills within each.

 

Foundation/
Context

Presence/
Support

Support/
Challenge

Presence/
Deepening

Inner
Work

You can improve that natural ability to help others by becoming a Relationship Coach and you can upgrade any old habits of enabling, codependency, or rescuing.

Hear from our Graduates

 

Our Next Training Begins in September 2021

 

Students who enroll before September are given immediate access to the RCT online community, where interaction among classmates from all over the globe begins! And if you haven’t completed the DPIR program (a requirement to graduate as a Certified Relationship Coach), you can also start on that while you wait for class to start in September!

RCT Class calls – Tuesdays at 12:30pm MT

  • September 21
  • October 5
  • October 19
  • November 2
  • November 16
  • November 16
  • December 7
  • December 14
  • January 11
  • January 25
  • February 8
  • February 22
  • March 8
  • March 22
  • April 5
  • April 19
  • May 5
  • May 17

RCT Large Group Calls – Thursdays at 12:00pm MT

  • September 30
  • October 28
  • November 11
  • December 9
  • January 20
  • February 17
  • March 17
  • April 14
  • May 12

DPIR Growth Session calls – Wednesdays at 12:30pm MT

  • September 8
  • October 13
  • November 3
  • December 8
  • January 26
  • February 23
  • March 23
  • April 20
  • May 25

Orientation Class: September 16 – 12:30pm MT
Intensive: Friday, October 22nd – 10am-3pm
Graduation: June 1st-4th (subject to change)

Use this website to convert the times listed above to your local timezone

Our Refund Guarantee

 Because we are fully committed to helping you change your relationship and your life, we want to offer you this 100% money back guarantee. If you participate and complete the entire course including completing every class, every homework assignment and turn them in, and you do all practice coaching calls, and still don’t feel that we’ve delivered on our promise, we will happily refund 100% of your money.

This means you must apply this course education to your life and your relationships. We know that if you do, you’ll get results. But If you do the work and still don’t get value, then we don’t deserve your money and we’ll cheerfully refund you 100% of your tuition.

We do this because we’re looking for serious and committed students only. We take the learning environment seriously and maintain a very high standard of truth, integrity, encouragement, and inspired, action-oriented learning.

*Effective May 2021