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Relationship Mastery

Discover the Deep Psychology of Intimate Relationships

The Deep Psychology of Intimate Relationships
(DPIR) Certification Program

9 Months to Lasting, Powerful, and Supportive Relationships with your Partner, Family, Friends, and Colleagues.

In 9 months from today, you can have unparalleled breakthroughs in your relationships where you will no longer feel stuck, disempowered and unseen. This rite of passage will take you through pleasure and pain and intense ups and downs, but you’re going to transform the way you relate to others, and it’s going to last a lifetime.

A Message From Jayson

“Being seen and understood is a core need we all have. But our educational and religious institutions, our elders, and the mainstream media have done nothing to teach us how to accomplish this.

Most adults are just aimless children, pretending they know how to be in a relationship. They bring with them baggage from their youth generated by chronic superficial connections and trauma or neglect, either on purpose or by freak accident.

Join our community of driven heart warriors from across the globe, working to develop bulletproof intimate relationships.”

Join The Greatest
Relationship Course
On The Planet

In Our DPIR Program, You Will Learn

  • How relationships really work; how to know if you’re living in a childish fantasy.
  • How to set the context for a meaningful conversation so you can get to things that matter.
  • How to work through conflict and repair and reconnect, every time.
  • The roots of your inner conflicts and how to resolve them.
  • How to set clear, proactive boundaries so you can have more personal integrity (instead of abandoning yourself and getting walked over).
  • The 8-step approach to support a friend in need (this will QUICKLY flip the switch between ‘casual friend’ to ‘committed friend’, so use it carefully!).
  • How to feel validated and how to validate others (this is the cornerstone to feeling heard, seen, and understood).
  • Owning your top 4 NEEDS! Yes, you have them; and they are non-negotiable.
  • Who you are (this is huuuuuge), and what you stand for (once you understand this, your actions start to fall into place and you feel in alignment with a greater sense of purpose).
  • How to apologize in a way that leaves both you and the other party empowered and grateful (and how to get your partner to do this, too!).
  • Your attachment style and how that impacts your intimate relationship. 
  • How to give heartfelt appreciation to others so that they open up to explore a deeper bond and connection with you.
  • How to communicate to get the BEST out of the people you care about.
  • How to clear HUGE past resentments quickly. 
  • A whole lot more.

Your DPIR Course includes:

  • 18 prerecorded classes / lectures taught by Jayson on the core curriculum
  • 15 hours of study outside of class
  • 18 hours of optional practice sessions with DPIR classsmates
  • 18+ deep and engaging homework assignments
  • A self-exam which you’ll take at the end of each semester to test your knowledge of each skill
  • An optional Facebook group of committed students who are on your team, rooting for your success.

Note: Over 9 months, the coursework should average about 2-3 hours per week.

Upon Completion You Will Be Awarded A Certificate of Completion from The Relationship School!

You will deepen and improve ALL your relationships. Don’t waste time with unproven theories, short-sighted approaches, or archaic, debunked processes.

Get my comprehensive map and system!
It’s specifically designed for you to create a secure long-term partnership!

What Our Graduates Have To Say About The DPIR Program

I have an amazing intimate relationship and that’s more than I was looking for when I signed up for DPIR last year. My life would have been a very different one if I had these skills 20 years ago! Through DPIR and the Facebook Group, I now have a group for support, accountability and a place to practice reflective listening. My husband and I are faithfully checking in with each other intentionally at least once a week, if not more. We are doing the exercises and working in some growth activities around the things that most trigger the other. It’s definitely difficult to use all the tools all the time, but even when it’s an uncomfortable situation, we always resolve whatever the issue is quickly and end up stronger. I genuinely feel blessed by your work, thank you!

Katharine S. – Utah

The single most important decision I’ve made in my life, massive benefits.

Art M. – San Francisco Bay area

I’m overwhelmed with gratitude considering the transformation I’ve experienced in my relationships. I love the effective tools, methods, and support that helped me embody deep confidence as a partner, coach, father, friend, an0d beyond. I light up thinking about how growing in this way has had an exponential impact on my life and family – I can’t imagine a better investment in myself. My only regret is not “Getting this” sooner.

Steve S. – Chicago, Illinois

To say it’s been life changing feels trite, but I don’t know how else to describe this and how powerful it is. I’m just feeling more secure in who I am and what I’m doing and how that reflects in business. I’m establishing better boundaries to support myself. I’m not feeling as emotional around the ups and downs of business, which has been huge for my well being.

Casey S. – Philadelphia, PA

Yeah, it’s been the best thing I’ve ever done, honestly, just for so many reasons, not only relationship wise but just for my own self… It’s only been a year since I got divorced, but we’re able to co-parent, be great friends. My relationship with my kids has significantly improved. I’m doing a lot of work outside of this course as well, but this place has been the top thing that’s changed it.

Abby B – Minneapolis, MN

I live in Germany, so when the Relationship School announced the DPIR Online Course, I was immediately on board, because it meant I could finally do the relational deep-dive I had been looking for without having to travel to the U.S. The DPIR Course is a comprehensive, experiential and powerful training that is filled to brim with the tools and insights. As an avid listener of Jayson’s podcast, I was familiar with some of the tools, but over the period of 9 months I was able to disassemble and, ultimately, reassemble the ways I show up in relationships. I’ve learned a ton, and I am continuously going back to the course to repeat certain exercises. I continue to deepen my understanding of what I’ve learned. In the process, my relational life slowly but surely changed – as well as my understanding of what is possible in a relationship and what kind of relationship I am actually looking for.

Sven V. – Germany

The thing I have gotten out of this class that I did not expect at all, like I knew I would learn how to manage conflict better and skillfully be able to go into parenting situations with more confidence and ease, and I’ve gotten all of that, but here’s what else, which is a surprise is when I look in the mirror now I like who I see more.

Denise S. – Viroquoa, WI

I feel completely transformed! There are places I still feel stuck in some of my personal relationships, but I have more clarity about how to address those things and more confidence moving forward, and that really came from this course. It felt good to invest in myself and my personal growth journey.

Lisa N. – Denver, CO

Here’s what our Ambassadors are saying about DPIR:

“We need to foster emotional competence in our children, as the best preventive medicine.”

DR. GABOR MATÉ
Ambassador – The Relationship School®

“The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. When we invest time and energy learning how to love and be loved, we heal pain from the past and we create the conditions for greater health in future generations.”

DR. ALEXANDRA SOLOMON
Ambassador – The Relationship School®

“I mean, none of us learned this stuff in school. We didn’t learn how to learn and we didn’t learn how to do relationships. Those are the two things that should be taught in schools.”

DR. STAN TATKIN
Ambassador – The Relationship School®

DPIR FAQs

These are some of the most commonly asked questions about DPIR that we get. Check them out along with the provided answers, and if you have any other questions, make sure to contact us: [email protected].

What will be taught in DPIR?

In addition to being THE person in your family, circle of friends, and relationships that knows how to work through interpersonal differences and conflicts, you’ll gain specific tools and skills you can use immediately – and for the rest of your life.
Check out the course syllabus here.

What if I start with DPIR and then discover it's not right for me?

Because we are fully committed to helping you change your relationship and your life, we want to offer you this 100% money back guarantee. If you participate and complete the entire course including completing every class, every homework assignment and turn them in, and you do at least 12 practice calls, and still don’t feel that we’ve delivered on our promise, we will happily refund 100% of your money.

This means you must apply this course education to your life and your relationships. We know that if you do, you’ll get results. But If you do the work and still don’t get value, then we don’t deserve your money and we’ll cheerfully refund you 100% of your tuition.

We do this because we’re looking for serious and committed students only. We take the learning environment seriously and maintain a very high standard of truth, integrity, encouragement, and inspired, action-oriented learning.

*Effective May 2021

Do I have to live in Boulder in order to take this course?

No, not at all. We have students from all over the world, including Switzerland, Brazil, and even Tanzania! This is a completely virtual course.

What does the classwork look like from week to week?

You can take this course at your own pace. You can take it in 9 months or 9 weeks, it’s up to you.

How much time will I need each week for the course?

DPIR takes most students between 2-4 hours per week, depending on your pace. 

Can I practice with other people taking the course with me?

Yes. You’ll join a DPIR Facebook Group where you can connect with other students taking the DPIR class or who have already completed the course. You can reach out to find practice partners there, as well as a community of growth-minded individuals

 100% Money Back Guarantee


Because we are fully committed to helping you change your relationship and your life, we want to offer you this 100% money back guarantee. If you participate and complete the entire course including completing every class, every homework assignment and turn them in, and you do at least 12 practice calls, and still don’t feel that we’ve delivered on our promise, we will happily refund 100% of your money.

This means you must apply this course education to your life and your relationships. We know that if you do, you’ll get results. But If you do the work and still don’t get value, then we don’t deserve your money and we’ll cheerfully refund you 100% of your tuition.

We do this because we’re looking for serious and committed students only. We take the learning environment seriously and maintain a very high standard of truth, integrity, encouragement, and inspired, action-oriented learning.

*Effective May 2021