Not so long ago, I was in the same place you might be right now.
That’s why I have studied hard to become a relationship expert and earned three relationship coaching certificates over the past two years from the The Relationship School. I have coached numerous couples and individuals already and gotten amazing feedback like “Wendy is a gifted healer” (that one made me tear up, I’m not gonna lie) and “I’m thankful for the therapy we did years before but it didn’t get us to this depth of understanding each other and how to communicate”
The reality is, I know what it’s like to struggle with not feeling seen and heard in your relationships. If understanding and feeling understood by your partner feels harder than it should, if you find your relationship feels more like a battlefield….or worse, you are starting to feel like roommates, this is for you.
5 years ago, the pain of feeling completely and utterly misunderstood by my partner-who had been one of my best friends for years BEFORE we got married- consumed my life. I wasn’t able to reach him no matter what I did, and he definitely didn’t ‘get’ me. It got so bad that I am not exaggerating when I say I cried every single day. It affected my kids, my job, and my friendships. I was a complete mess. This was my second marriage, and was supposed to be the one I got “right” after being in an abusive relationship for way too long. I had gotten therapy, I had stood on my own, and now someone who I thought was my best friend felt like a stranger. I felt like a complete failure. I was becoming deeply depressed and so so angry, and more than anything, I was lonely.
That pain drive me to get help from a relationship coach. That one decision changed everything.
I’m on the other side of it now, and some amazing things have happened. I know what it’s like to have a beautiful relationship with a partner where I can be myself and be heard and understood. I love that I have the capacity now to give that back to him (and the other important people in my life, too). I don’t feel the need to beat myself up, or criticize my partner when things go a little sideways, as they inevitably do. Even on the tough days when our views clash, I feel held and encouraged. I am able to support and encourage him. The very best part is, I get to do work that I love-helping other people find their way to better relationships and a more joyful experience in life.
I want this kind life for everyone!!!!
I have dedicated myself to helping as many people as I can to create the relationship of their dreams and experience the passion and growth that makes possible. If you are ready to for me to help bring the joy back to your relationship, all you have to do is click the link below to get started!