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The Relationship

Class You Never

Got In School

The DPIR Certification Program

The Deep Psychology of Intimate Relationships (DPIR) Certification Program

The only curriculum to teach you how to have Lasting, Powerful and Supportive Relationships with your Partner, Your Family, Your Friends and Your Colleagues, For Life.

In 9 months from today, you can have unparalleled breakthroughs in your relationships where you will no longer feel stuck, disempowered and unseen. This rite of passage will take you through pleasure and pain and intense ups and downs, but you’re going to transform the way you relate to others, and it’s going to last a lifetime.

Callout: You’re about to experience unparalleled breakthroughs in your relationships. You will no longer feel stuck, disempowered, and unseen. This rite of passage will transform the way you relate to others… and it will last a lifetime.

A Message From Jayson

“As you’ve heard me say countless times before, being seen and understood by others is a core need we all have. But our educational and religious institutions, our elders and the mainstream media have done nothing to teach us how to accomplish this.

Most adults are just aimless children, pretending they know how to be in a relationship. They bring with them baggage from their youth generated by chronic superficial connections and trauma or neglect, either on purpose or by freak accident.

That is why over 100 committed and driven heart warriors from across the globe have joined this 9-month course I created on developing bulletproof intimate relationships.”

Join The Greatest
Relationship Course
On The Planet

In Our DPIR Program, You Will Learn

  • How relationships really work; how to know if you’re living in a childish fantasy.
  • How to set the context for a meaningful conversation so you can get to things that matter.
  • How to work through conflict and repair and reconnect, every time..
  • The roots of your inner conflicts and how to resolve them.
  • How to set clear, proactive boundaries so you can have more personal integrity (instead of abandoning yourself and getting walked over).
  • The 8-step approach to support a friend in need (this will QUICKLY flip the switch between ‘casual friend’ to ‘committed friend’, so use it carefully!).
  • How to feel validated and how to validate others (this is the cornerstone to feeling heard, seen, and understood).
  • Owning your top 4 NEEDS! Yes, you have them; and they are non-negotiable.
  • Who you are (this is huuuuuge), and what you stand for (once you understand this, your actions start to fall into place and you feel in alignment with a greater sense of purpose).
  • How to apologize in a way that leaves both you and the other party empowered and grateful (and how to get your partner to do this, too!).
  • Your attachment style and how that impacts your intimate relationship. 
  • How to give heartfelt appreciation to others so that they open up to explore a deeper bond and connection with you.
  • How to communicate to get the BEST out of the people you care about.
  • How to clear HUGE past resentments quickly. 
  • A whole lot more.

Your DPIR Course includes:

  • 18 prerecorded classes / lectures taught by Jayson on the core curriculum
  • 15 hours of study outside of class
  • 18 hours of optional practice sessions with DPIR classsmates
  • 18+ deep and engaging homework assignments
  • A self-exam which you’ll take at the end of each semester to test your knowledge of each skill
  • An optional Facebook group of committed students who are on your team, rooting for your success.

Note: Over 9 months, the coursework should average about 2-3 hours per week.

Upon Completion You Will Be Awarded A Certificate of Completion from The Relationship School!

DPIR is your opportunity to get a Master’s Degree in Relationships and become Interpersonally Intelligent, a comprehensive map and system specifically designed to create a secure long-term partnership that is informed by human development, transpersonal psychology, polyvagal theory, adult attachment theory, neuroscience, interpersonal neurobiology, axiology, psychotherapy, coaching, gestalt theory, and vajrayana buddhism.

Deepen and improve your relationships without wasting your time with unproven theories, short-sighted approaches or archaic, debunked processes.

What Our Graduates Have To Say About The Relationship

School DPIR Program

I live in Germany, so when the Relationship School announced the DPIR Course, I was immediately on board, because it meant I could finally do the relational deep-dive I had been looking for without having to travel to the U.S. The DPIR Course us a comprehensive, experiential and powerful training that is filled to brim with the tools and insights. As an Avid listener of Jayson’s podcast I was familiar with some of the tools, but over the period of nine months I was able to disassemble and, ultimately, reassemble the ways I show up in relationships. I’ve learned a ton, and I am continuously going back to the course to repeat certain exercises. I continue to deepen my understanding of what I’ve learned. In the process, my relational life slowly but surely changed – as well as my understanding of what is possible in a relationship and what kind of relationship I am actually lookin for.

Sven V. – Germany

I have an amazing intimate relationship and that’s more than I was looking for when I signed up for DPIR last year. My life would have been a very different one if I had these skills 20 years ago. Through DPIR and Facebook Group, I now have a group for support, accountability and a place to practice reflective listening. My husband and I are faithfully checking in with each other intentionally at least once a week, if not  more. We are doing the exercises and working in some growth activities around the things that most trigger the other. It’s definitley difficult to use all the to use all the tools all the time, but even when it’s an incomfortable situation, we always resolve whatever the issue is quickly and end up stronger. I genuinely feel blessed by your work, thank you!

Katharine S. – Utah

The thing I have gotten out of this class that I did not expect at all, like I knew I would learn how to manage conflict better and skillfully be able to go into parenting situations with more confidence and ease, and I’ve gotten all of that, but here’s what else, which is a surprise is when I look in the mirror now I like who I see more.

Denise S. – Viroquoa, WI

The single most important decision I’ve made in my life, massive benefits.

Art M. – San Francisco Bay area

I’m overwhelmed with gratitude considering the transformation I’ve experienced in my relationships. I love the effective tools, methods, and support that helped me embody dep confidence as a partner, coach, father, friend, an0d beyond. I light up thinking about how growing in this way has had an exponential impact on my life and family – I can’t imagine a better investment in myself. My only regret is not “Getting this” sooner.

Steve S. – Chicago, Illinois

To say it’s been life changing feels trite, but I don’t know how else to desrible this and how powerful it is. I’m just feeling more secure in who I am and what I’m doing and how that reflects in business. I’m establishing better boundaries to support myself. I’m not feeling as emotional around the ups and downs of business, which has been huge for my well being.

Casey S. – Philadelphia, PA

Yeah, It’s been the best thing I’ve eve done, honestly, just for so many reasons, not only relationship wise but just for my own self… It’s only been a year since I got divorced, but we’re able to co-parent, be great friends. My relationship with m kids has significantly improved. I’m doing a lot of work outside of this course as well, but this place has been the top thing that’s changed it.

Abby B – Minneapolis, MN

I feel completely transformed. there are places I still feel stuck in my personal relationships, and I know I have more clarity about how to address those things and more confidence moving forward, and that really came from this course. It felt good to invest that in myself and my personal growth journey.

Lisa N. – Denver, CO

Here’s what our Ambassadors are saying about DPIR:

“We need to foster emotional competence in our children, as the best preventive medicine.”

Ambassador – The Relationship School®

“The quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. When we invest time and energy learning how to love and be loved, we heal pain from the past and we create the conditions for greater health in future generations.”

Ambassador – The Relationship School®

“I mean, none of us learned this stuff in school. We didn’t learn how to learn and we didn’t learn how to do relationships. Those are the two things that should be taught in schools.”

Ambassador – The Relationship School®


These are some of the most commonly asked questions about DPIR that we get. Check them out along with the provided answers, and if you have any other questions, make sure to contact us: [email protected].

What will be taught in DPIR?

In addition to being THE person in your family, circle of friends, and relationships that knows how to work through interpersonal differences and conflicts, you’ll gain specific tools and skills you can use immediately – and for the rest of your life.
Check out the course syllabus here.

What if I start with DPIR and then discover it's not right for me?

We offer a 100% money back guarantee. When you enroll into DPIR, you are eligible for a 30-day refund of any payments made, minus your non-refundable deposit. This policy begins on the first day of class. We require a written request and that you take part in an exit interview with a member of our student development team, prior to releasing your funds. After 30 days, you are no longer eligible for a refund, and any requests made for one will not be honored, under any circumstances.
Read about the complete policy here.
There may be other options available or a better fit that can be discussed on an individual, case by case basis.

Do I have to live in Boulder in order to take this course?

No, not at all. We have students from all over the world, including Switzerland, Brazil, and even Tanzania! This is a completely virtual event.

What happens if I miss a class?

You can check the recorded classes in the student portal as many times as you want.

Do you offer any payment plans?

Yes. We offer 6- and 9-month payment plans. Details here

What does the classwork look like from week to week?

You can take this course at your own pace. You can take it in 9 months or 9 weeks, it’s up to you.

How much time will I need each week for the course?

DPIR takes most students between 2-4 hours per week, depending on your pace. 

Can I partice with other people taking the course with me?

It depends. Sometimes there are other students taking the DPIR class at the same time that you are and you can find them in the Facebook group. Remember: you’re pretty much on your own with this course.

 100% Money Back Guarantee



If you sign up for DPIR and within 30 days of your purchase, you watch the first two classes, do the homework and still feel like there hasn’t been a deep shift in your life, I’ll refund your tuition 100% within 30 days of purchase. (Conditions apply. Please see the full refund policy for more details.) . After 30 days, you are no longer eligible for a refund, and any requests made for one will not be honored, under any circumstances.


30 days allows you time to participate in these options: partner calls, listen to the course content for approximately 2-3 classes and do the homework. You will have a good taste of what we are doing. It’s also a time for us to evaluate your ability to do the work. We expect students to hold themselves in a good way, not complain or blame anyone in this course for their results. We reserve the right to remove you from the course, at any point, if we determine you are not ready for the program or are not abiding by the student agreements. Should this occur within the first 30 days, your full payment minus the non-refundable deposit will be refunded, provided it is within the first 30 days. If this occurs after the first 30 days, your right to a refund will be forfeited and you will remain obligated to any remaining payments.