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See How Our Coaching Program Empowers Relational Leadership

Daniel, Salt Lake City

Christine

 

Jenny N.

Fayetteville, Georgia

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“This class helped me initiate a much-needed 180. It is possible because I was ready, with a good predisposition this time (after years of following Jayson), knowing relational work was needed, but I still needed to figure out how to start.
I started this class taking the orientation while I was in a resort, in one of those vacations that couples in trouble take, hoping that will help turn things around. I am finishing with a divorce, which sometimes sounds like a bad word, but I see it as “success.” It still tastes like grief and the loss of a project, BUT I found some of the tools I needed to face my truth, stop chasing potential instead of facing reality, and, most importantly, build a better relationship with myself.
I also work in a context with high-level expressed emotions, and tools like LUFU have been beneficial.”

 

Danyelle B.

Ontario, Canada

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Before I signed up for the course and read other people’s testimonials, I wondered what the hell goes on in that course to make people say such things. What could possibly happen to make it so special?! Well, if I could sum it up in a few words: this school is the real deal. Not only does the course have a curriculum with depth and meaning, but the teachers and students provide an atmosphere of love, support and challenge. I felt so safe. We are encouraged to face our fears, go towards the challenge holding us back and value our authentic selves and our close relationships. I am forever changed because of the new life lenses I wear. I feel more alive and awake than I have in decades and like we say in French, “Je me sens bien dans ma peau”. (I feel good in my skin. I feel more embodied)”

 

Bec W.

Nakara, Australia

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“RCT has had a huge impact on me and my relationships. One of my biggest revelations is how similar and interconnected intimate parnter and parent child relationships are. How we are parented impacts how we show up in intimate partnerships and also how we parent. It’s an ongoing cycle that can perpetuate toxicity and dysfunction or it can be a nourishing and respectful turning of the generational wheel. And with the awareness that this course creates in us, we get to choose which way we take it.
Another massive impact this course has had is understanding that conflict is inevitable and expected in all relationships and that we can work positively with conflict to deepen connection. Through RCT I now not only know but have a have a felt sense that very day we get to wake up and choose how we are going to show up in our relationships. Every day we get to make that choice. We can choose connection, choose repair, choose vulnerability, and choose to have the hard conversations that ultimately help us to have more fulfilled, connected and meaningful lives.
There have been so many benefits for myself and my relationships and now I feel motivated and equipped to bring it to others.”

Taylor, Colorado

Amy, Chicago

 

Zach K.

Makawao, Hawaii

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“This course will have you combing with a fine tooth comb what you believe about relationships. It starts at the foundation with the personal relationship you have with yourself and exhaustively moves to concepts, tools, science and hands on practice in engaging the work. If that were not enough, which it wasn’t for a guy like me, you then learn how to facilitate the work for others, completing the learning cycle and, yet I know I have only just begun a life’s practice. Profound.”

 

Krista C.

Newton, Massachusetts

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“If you are ready to meet other like minded kind humans, face your wounds, heal your heart and live according to your values buckle up and click register! What an amazing adventure! I feel like the weight of the world has been lifted from my shoulders. I don’t have to know everything. I don’t have to fix everyone. I can lean in and trust my journey and the journey others choose. What a relief and what an opportunity, thanks Jayson and the entire team!”

 

Tyler M.

Alberta, Canada

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Consider what you really want out of your relationships and your life. If there is any part of yourself that you feel like you cannot show authentically but you feel called to get more out of yourself, this course is for you. The coursework and community in RCT/RM will truly unlock many aspects of yourself and your life that you may not even know are capable of making a difference in the world, yet.”

Corrina

Corrine, CN

 

Wendy B.

Ypsilanti, Michigan

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“RCT has given me the path to my most cherished aspiration. Today I can say with confidence, I am a coach. In RCT I have grown and learned and built cherished relationships with true heart warriors. I have discovered abilities and strengths I never knew I had. Aside from learning some great skills and being encouraged and allowed to put my own flavor to my coaching, I have seen marked improvement in my work and personal relationships. I am so glad I chose to invest in myself and give myself the opportunity to have my work make an impact in people’s lives. i may not change the world, but I know I will make it possible for people to change theirs. Thank you Relationship School!”

 

Richelle L.

Alberta, Canada

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“This program has helped me deepen in my understand of needs and values, which has supported me in bringing more challenge to my relationship. I also feel much more equipped to navigate the rocky waters of conflict and get back to a good place with my partner. As a coach, I feel more prepared to support my clients in their challenging relational dynamics. I’ve developed more skills that I can bring to the coaching container and I’m excited to continue to deepen into and integrate this important work!”

 

Will S.

Boone, North Carolina

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Coming into this course I was in a horrible place in life and around relationships. This course helped me to understand what was happening to me and what I needed to do which was take ownership of my part of grow. My relationships have improved so much since this course! Whether I start a business or not, this investment in myself was life changing. I can’t thank Jayson, MITS, and my cohort enough for allowing me to be here. I want to change the narrative around Men of Color, emotions and healing. This is just the start. I will continue to research and grow in all intersectionalities I possess. Overall this was a challenging year with the relationships courses, teaching two courses and running an office. This was a rooting for me and a time to get the growth I needed! -Thank you!”

Kristen

Fereshta

 

Damodar C.

Tucson, Arizona

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“A course that will give you the perspectives & tools to radically redo your relationships – and your relationship to your own self – in deeply empowering & meaningful ways… as well as share those tools with the world as a relationship coach. If you take the content to heart, practice, and are self motivated, this course has the power to bring great transformation into your lives and the lives of others… and give you the resource to shift into an exciting new career and service to others”

 

Rebekah D.

Arlington, Washington

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Not only has this course given me the skills and confidence to get out and start my coaching business, but it has deeply impacted my life and personal relationships. As someone who has struggled with self criticism for a lifetime, I can finally see my strengths and not be knocked out by mistakes. Seeing myself, my authentic self wholly, was worth the investment of time and financial resources on its own and even more so with the confidence I now have as a relationship coach.”

 

Vladislava Z.

Wageningen, Netherlands

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“The RCT has been a ground breaking experience for me. Relationships are one of my highest values and the course has brought me to a place at which I feel like I’m walking my talk. Coupled with relentless personal responsibility the RCT course is a great transformational container towards a more fulfilling life through love. I would recommend it to anybody who aspires to a more meaningful and connected life and to those who are called to support others on this path through coaching.”

Jessica

Rachel, Australia

 

Silvia B.

Wien, Austria

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I better stand up for myself in my private relationships. I highly differentiated my professional identity. I think the idea of having a school with classmates, teachers and headmaster to study relationships is marvelous. I highly appreciate the relationships I could build during the course and my personal and relational development I gained during the last year.
I also find it interesting to what level this work can be transmitted online – and therefore relationships from all around the world have been established.”

 

Mala B.

Ontario, Canada

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I have been taught to lead with curiousity and vulnerability. I’ve become much clearer on my own style and approach. I’ve learnt deeper levels of understanding around self responsibility, self acceptance and self mastery. I love that I can honestly claim what is my shit and when I’m not sure I have retrieved my confidence to ask.”

 

Nikoo A.

London, United Kingdom

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“The RM and RCT has been one of the best experiences of my life and truly transformative. It was hard work and worth every minute.”

Taylor

Kate

Patrick, Oregon

 

McKenna G.

Prospect, Oregon

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“RCT was a great opportunity for me as a coach with no experience to explore what it means to help clients grow in real time and develop as a Relational Leader in my own life.”

 

Jordan K.

Boulder, Colorado

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I have learned to take more ownership of my relational experience and look inward for change vs outward. When I started this course, I was sure that I needed my partner to change in ways that suited me to continue to build intimacy and joy an connection in my relationship. I now see that it is up to me to make the changes I seek in relationship and this has grown my compassion towards others and empathy. I feel more resilient and connected to the value of relationships. It has truly helped me heal my heart and my way of relating.”

 

Patsy S.

Maplewood, Minnesota

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Learning how to be in relationship with myself and how that impacts my other relationships has been an eye-opening journey. I am no longer in people-pleasing mode or staying silent. Now, I am owning my part, setting boundaries, communicating more clearly, being more curious, asking questions to get to the heart of the matter and more. My relationship toolbox is ready to go! Plus, I get to do what I love – help others build their relationship toolbox as their Relationship Coach! What an amazing gift to see others grow and develop through their own relationship journey!”

Dana

Ian

Alexis

 

Rebekah D.

Arlington, Wa

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“The Relationship School has changed my life. I came here as an excellent advise giver, and that does not make an excellent coach. Now im starting my own business. This program allowed me to digest the information at my own pace so I can see results. “

 

Robyn P.

Aurora, Co

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I decided to join RCT because it resonated with who I truly am and what I believe I was born to do. Everytime I practiced my coaching or went to class, that was confirmed for me; That I was in the right place.This has been one of the best decisios I’ve ever made. Before RCT I was someone who gave a lot in all areas of life and I lost sight of myself and who I was. RCT helped me come back to myself and really ground in who I am. I am more confident in living authentically. “

 

Kate H.

Salinas, Ca

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“so before RCT I have worked in marketing for a number of years corporate America kind of showing up doing the work being told what to do and you know feeling unfulfilled as a person and RCT has helped me um understand better who I am as a person and has given me tools to help other people understand themselves and how they relate to other people and communicate and work through conflicts and so I as a person have grown and I’m also prepared to be able to help other people”

Emma, UK

Fereshta

Jill

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Kenneth

Kate

Zach

 

Leticia L.

San Antonio, Texas

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“The impact this course has made on me has been huge with respects to transforming my being an enabler and overfunctioner. I have been over-functioning in my relationships my entire life and this awareness is huge. I realize I have been doing most of the relationship work and have decided to stand down in relation to this. Not stand down on my own work; however, allowing the other to take charge of their own inner life. If the “other” is not able to grow up I have to reassess if I am able to grieve what I am not going to get. Children are unable to help themselves so it is imperative to know our inner children and when they rear their heads and bodies and care for them while triggered and witness who is at the table to make wiser choices. I have learned to judge the behaviors and speak to the behaviors and not the person.
This course is about self reflection and being an author of one’s life and not a victim to it. This course is about facing fears and living all of life: the good, bad and ugly of it. This course is about boundaries: the rigid, the porous and the fluid. I desire to be a dynamic human being self actualized and knew this course from the beginning was about facing our shadows. My marriage has lots of shadows as does most of our society. I find the toxic positivity approach to life is alive and well and not well versed on how to repair conflict.
This course is very needed and kudos for Jayson and Ellen to have the insight to cultivate this. I am onboard to help if I am allowed to do so. I know what I did not have an awareness of my entire life and now that I know I will be a cheerleader. As Dr Demartini states find the void and make it a gift. That is me here. We need to get this out to the kids in high school without a doubt. I plan to do this somehow. Life is about that last piece of conflict – the repair to attain secure attachment. Although there are things to improve logistics wise in the course I am grateful for the course and did get loads from the course. I plan on continuing to integrate. I have a vast knowledge in spirituality and transforming celiac with body nutrients and happen to be an athlete so lots to offer with being well rounded self actualized human being. Fortunately, I had taken Ken Wilber’s Superhuman course many years back due to a huge awakening I had in 2012. Here it is 2023 and find it is not ever too late to change. I am integrating the knowledge I had already with this course.
I feel and know how fortunate I am for having taking this path. My generation (baby boomer) has lots to unlearn and relearn in order to move from survival to thriving. Yes, there are many bumps on the pickle and they do need to transform..I would have appreciated more live classes with Jayson and Ellen. I was fortunate to have attended the women’s group with her and find her presence peaceful, open and so warm. She is a gem. I would have appreciated not having to pay more money for additional support as it is my understanding that coaching class there was no support from trainers unless we paid for it and I did. I did appreciate the small support I did get during RM and I did lots of it during the coaching. I did take it very seriously and did the work. I found the course led me to other areas such as Dr Demartini which I am grateful. I have read 3 of his books now.
I have also taken a few courses from him. Although more money was a bite I am grateful I did seek out more support. I am not going to sit here and live with regret. I am still seeking support and have purchased couples coaching. This journey has been an interesting ride on the waves of life. I am fortunate I have been able to afford it. I am intent on serving humanity and am open to new opportunities to do so. I sought this course as I have massive knowledge and education and find it difficult to know the “how to” to actually serve it to those who need it. So here I am. Thank you Jayson and Ellen and your team. I am blessed to have made the journey. “
 

 

Kenneth T.

Mercer, Wa

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I found to be people of extremely high integrity amazing people and heart center and like focused and intelligent and whoa holding space like crazy and really good ways and I said she said these are the kind of I want to hang out with these kids really kind of people so a year and a little bit after here I am I’ve now since been accepted and connected three times and I was an assistant coach on the last one and my journey will continue. so this course has impacted me and my relationships in raising the bar in every way maybe it’s it’s helped make me more relationally aware of real emotionally intelligent more present more tuned more sensitive more kind and compassionate to myself and to others it’s improved my relationships all the way around from family members to partners to housemates it’s helped me become more responsible owning my stuff it’s helped me to communicate more clearly it’s helped me become a better listener love that. I gained from RCT I’ve gained a lot of confidence I’ve gained a completely new and different career path at 60 years old I’ve gained a New Hope for my future as far as career and it has given me a much more clearer trajectory in regard to my life’s purpose. I would say that someone considering RCT it costs a lot of freaking money and I had to do it on a credit card and I watch people like me on videos like this 14 months ago saying just do it it’s an investment in yourself you won’t regret it just make it happen I was like okay I’m gonna I’m gonna invest in myself I’m gonna do it I’m gonna make it happen and I did and it’s been worth everything.”
 

 

Lone O.

British Coumbia, Canada

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I’m Lone. I’m a level one certified relationship coach. I’m a helper, and I’m super curious, and I love having conversations with people around what’s really important to them. Through the relationship coach training, I had lots of conversations. One of the things that really impressed me and was really transformative for me was how empowering it was for people to get in touch with their own experience. I experienced this myself in coaching that I did in the program where I got in touch with my own experience, and through doing that, I had a lot of insights and understanding into how I was showing up for myself and how I was showing up for others. And so when I experienced this as a coach with my clients, it was just even more powerful, because I could just see how important it was for any real change, any real growth, any real evolution to happen. It was really important, first of all, get in touch with your own experience. And the second thing that was really amazing and impactful for me was the transformative power of being witnessed, supported and challenged by another person in that process of getting to know yourself better, I had people comment over and over how they hadn’t experienced that before, and this really felt that they got in touch with a part of themselves that they hadn’t they didn’t have access to. So, you know, as a result, I feel like I’m a better coach. I can help more. And certainly my my curiosity has been honed. And I just think that anyone who’s really interested in helping and helping people to really get in touch with themselves, to evolve into greater versions of themselves. If you’re that kind of coach, then the relationship coach training is something you should consider. I’m so glad that I do you.”
 

Cassie

Ray

Robyn

 

Monica F.

Nelson, BC

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Savouring every drop as our connection has grown immensely stronger since I began with your incredible school. My son has absolutely flourished! In all honesty he was in a rough spot when I began the journey, because I was. Not having his dad around much was hard on both of Us. Then I transformed and stopped resenting him and took ownership of where I needed to change. I knew I could be everything my Son needed and more. And I felt blessed that I could show my son what it looks like to show up in life and do the work to make changes. My son still says “remember what you were like before you went to school” lol If only you could see the transformation, I know how greatly it would Touch your heart. I am forever grateful. Where I used to react with anger and rage I now respond with love. Love & curiosity while being calm Yet firm.”

 

Liliana K.

West Des Moines, Ia

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Yeah, I just want to share that this has been an amazing journey full of challenges, tears, wins, learnings, growth, pain rewards, new friends, new connections. Super excited. I feel like a new person.”

 

Hosana G.

Singapore

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Jayson, I just want to say thank you for the work that you do, and I just want to share that my life is really transformed, especially taking deeper course like I used to be a people pleaser and living through the values of other people, and I’ll always worry about people judging me. And I don’t know you guys realize that I used to speak very fast because I was worried that people would judge me, but as I begin to just leave authentically, you know, I’ve become so much more grounded, and I’m able to just be myself and really follow that passion and that light. And I used to be somebody who have no dreams, but right now, I’m just like, wow, this, this passion is just burning within me, and I’m just going to go after it, no matter what people say or think about it. So I have so much hope for my future. I have so much excitement. Yeah, so I just want to say thank you very much.”

James

Amanda

Zander

 

Daniel S.

Orem, Utah

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Jason’s mission is to get this to everybody, and I feel so engaged to join him in that mission. This education is something that you will never get in school, in college, growing up. And from what I’ve learned this weekend and how I feel so inspired to change, but also to let that ripple out to the universe, is something I would recommend to anybody to come. Do you want to work on yourself? This is the place to do it.”

 

Christine R.

Manitou Springs, Colorado

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I finished rct and I was life changing for me in many ways. Specifically taking personal responsibility and getting out of the victim mentality. Also, going through my divorce and learning some better tools on conflict resolution and how to relate just one on one with a person. Some of the tools that I learned in Deeper I started to use with my children as well. On top of the fact that I was doing some life coaching, I just felt like this was the next logical step. In RC One, I just knew that I wanted to learn Jason’s process in coaching. It just struck me as being so much more effective. The two pieces of support and challenge make a big difference.”

 

Amy W.

Spring Lake, Michigan

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I’m a therapist by profession and what I have seen in my time with Jason and his work is that he brings theory and a practicality. So, a lot of people can teach the theory. What Jason does, which I feel is different, is that he makes it practically. And with the Deeper program, we practiced it for nine months. It’s not a five day workshop or a three day workshop and then we’re done in them or on our own. I don’t feel like that’s effective at all because there’s no accountability or there’s no practice and we just forget. We hear it and then there it goes.”

Brian

Joe

 

Aimee D.

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“being taught by Jayson, okay, and good. I get excited about it. I appreciated the way he delivered his content. That changed a lot of things in and out of my life. I think my biggest thing is intuition. My intuition kind of met with a different level of context, and they kind of just melded together a little bit more. So I feel way broader in my being as a just a person, and in my life and in my relationships, like resourced, they just kind of and they grew kind of together. They just kind of bumped into each other, and kind of I so I feel like, okay, good. I feel really good. I feel confident enough, and that feels awesome.”

 

Sven

Berlin, Germany

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Hi. My name is Sen. I’m from Berlin, Germany. I am currently in a relationship, and one of the reasons why I joined relationship school is because my current relationship is quite challenged. Before the course, my relationship felt really, really on the edge, and now my relationship still felt really on the action, but I’m in different place. I had to grow like there were other areas where I had to grow first, and that that clarity comes in a different way than I hoped for, and I’ve grown a lot stronger and more confident and more clear, and learned a lot about boundaries. I have more choice, and I can handle it better. This course is a lot of things, and it’s it’s really a tool to force. It’s not for the faint of heart. In all the best ways, it’s really profound, and you might fall down, you might kind of unravel, and you might want to quit. It’s part of it, knowing, and it’s great that that Jayson kind of announced, is announcing it that way, that there’s room for that. There’s room for kind of, like, really, just feeling overwhelmed, feeling this is too much. I cannot do it anymore, whatever, there’s room for that, and that’s part of the growth and part of pushing your match.”

Anon

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

I recently sought out therapy and it did not even come close to the connection and self-discovery/healing I get from this course.

Tim

Amy

 

Shannon B.

Carbondale, Colorado

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Hi. My name is Shannon, and I joined the coaching program in the fall of 2019 and I joined for two main reasons, one, because I really had a strong, deep desire to be of service to others, and I knew that I wanted that to be through coaching, and I really trusted that Jayson and his team and their wide range of experience would really provide a fabulous foundation to learn the skill and art of coaching, and two, being a growth junkie, I just knew that this coaching program would provide a great opportunity to poke out some really hard to reach areas within myself, andit did not disappointwhat I’ve learned and how the coaching program has changed my life. I get to wake up each day excited and energized about what I do my mission in life, and have the opportunity to be of service to others and to sit and have conversations and guiding others and bringing more clarity and joy into their life, all through my own experiences And what I’ve learned. So I just feel thoroughly grateful. I also find that I have more confidence. I speak my mind more clearly. I got I’ve developed friendships with people over the course of the year that are lasting and deep and just brings so much value to my life, so I feel really grateful to have participated in the program and to continue learning through the relationship school you.”

 

Matt F.

Ontario, Canada

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Hi, my name is Matt, and this is for you if you’re considering enrolling in the relationship school, relationship coaching program. I found the training challenging and deeply, deeply rewarding. It’s allowed me to begin a career transition towards a career as a coach that I find really meaningful and really rewarding. I currently have clients. I have paying clients who appreciate the support that they get from the work that we do together and doing the course, it has had a significant and very positive influence in my own relationship, life as a partner, as a father, as a friend, as a colleague, which the impact is really, is really significant for me. I’m far more happier and knowledgeable in my own personal relationships than I ever was before. It also introduced me to a community of people, of colleagues, of friends, who I can turn to when I need support in my own life, in my own relationships, but also offer incredible support and wisdom to help me support my clients in my coaching business. So being a coach, Coach, being a professional coach now, it also helps me stay accountable to my own growth and development in ways that I may not be so so willing to take on if I hadn’t done this program, and if I wasn’t serving clients, and if I wasn’t supported by the amazing community that I am all the best. Take care. You.”

 

Jessica M.

Peshastin, Washington

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“The experience I’ve had working with the coaching program at the relationship school has shifted my life in so many positive ways. I’m blessed with a community of like minded people looking to spread more love to the world, and I’ve been taught skills to help others improve their relationships and lives. I’ve also gained a new level of self understanding, empowerment and improved relationships in my life, I’d highly recommend it to anybody that’s looking to make an impact on the world.”

Warren

Corrine

 

Jennifer M.

Viroqua, Wisconsin

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Relationship coach training has changed my life. Its changed my relationships with my family, my friends and most of all myself. My life has been transformed by being a coach, being with people in such intimate powerful ways with individuals and couples.”

 

Brittany B.

Denver, Colorado

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I wasnt always aware that I was going to be a relationship coach, this was a path that I naturally stumbled upon through my own pain. I became a better leader, a better coach, a better mother and a better helper. Once I recieved this transformation I want to give it to others!”

 

Bethany Z.

Girdwood, Alaska

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“The school changed me, I wouldnt trade my journey with the relationship school for anything. I discovered myself, became a better parent and became a better wife. I discovered self love and created a whole career.”

Matt

Jennifer

 

Ana R.

Seattle, Washington

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Relationship Coach Training changed my life in a big way. For years I knew I wanted to change careers and do work that was more meaningful. RCT gave me the tools and experience I needed to build my own coaching practice.”

 

Will F.

Texas

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I want to tell you that TRS was more life changing for me than I can even put into words without writing a novel. I try not to speak in absolutes yet EVERY SINGLE part of my life has changed since nice working with TRS. I think about it often and have so much gratitude for the relational growth I had from my time with TRS. I joined for the partner relationship aspect and left as a better husband, a better friend, and surprisingly to me, a MUCH better businessman/colleague/corporate leader. I have work challenges EVERY week that I now handle different than I would have 4 years ago. I’m much happier in business and am confident I can grow even further than my previous path.”

 

Cassie F.

Idaho

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Hey Jayson. I’ve been in a relationship with the healthiest man I’ve ever chosen for the last nine months. I just wanted to say thank you. This wouldn’t have been possible two years ago (before RM and RCT). I even got this text from him today (he’s reading your book). Thank you. You following your passion and being yourself has completely changed my life. I am forever grateful.”

Lone

Brittany

 

Steve

Chicago

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“When I came to the Relationship School initially, I was in a really painful space. My marriage was challenged, my kids were young. I was in therapy, therapy wasn’t working. I just found myself in this confused, scared place. I’d heard Jayson on the podcast and felt like, like I’m a Marine and just hearing Jason’s voice and the way that he was talking about love, just connected with me. Made a lot of sense. And that was in stark contrast with the kind of therapy that I was getting. It’s cool to be here and witness myself, be on my journey and then to be alongside other folks making their journey. And just to see where I was in that painful space, I’m just getting chills right now just realizing like the journey that I’ve made, and just seeing that come to fruition and being here at the closing is just this beautiful work. I just feel very clear. I feel very on-point. It’s almost like that was another lifetime, the stark contrast between the two things. The thing I just want to share is just the level of enormous gratitude I have for my life crossing paths with Jayson Gaddis and the school, and what that’s meant to me on my life journey. And as a man, as a father, as a son, as a human being, I wouldn’t get to be the person that I am today. I just can’t see how that would be possible. And I’m just very super grateful.” 

 

Will F.

Texas

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I want to tell you that TRS was more life changing for me than I can even put into words without writing a novel. I try not to speak in absolutes yet EVERY SINGLE part of my life has changed since nice working with TRS. I think about it often and have so much gratitude for the relational growth I had from my time with TRS. I joined for the partner relationship aspect and left as a better husband, a better friend, and surprisingly to me, a MUCH better businessman/colleague/corporate leader. I have work challenges EVERY week that I now handle different than I would have 4 years ago. I’m much happier in business and am confident I can grow even further than my previous path.”

 

Warren

Texas

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I originally took the course, because I sucked at relationships. I kept going from one, to the next, to the next, hoping that the other people would be better. And then eventually I realized that I’m the one that had to improve. And when I realized that, and took the course, it just radically changed my whole life. I went from aimlessly wandering veteran who had previously been an alcoholic, and even addicted to drugs and homeless, to whoa, actually I can take ownership in my parts of all my problems, and change my whole life. Now I’m a relationship coach, and I help people, and I feel super served by everything I’ve encountered here.”

Ana

Hosana

Bethany

Nadia

Shannon

 

Leah Nora

Oakland

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“My name is Leah Nora, and I’m from Oakland, California. I’m married, and I have a eight month old baby. I started off in the roots community, and then I moved to deeper, RC one, now RC two. I actually left my job as an environmental scientist, and now I’m coaching, without doubt, the relationship school is what was the catalyst for me to switch careers and kind of be a stay at home mom at the same time. So my husband found the podcast and sent me one of the episodes. That was how I first discovered Jayson and I listened, and I was just so hooked by his work that I wanted more. So I kept leaning into his podcast. And then this more couple group on Facebook, and then I found out that he had a school where he was teaching, so the relationship school is very baby friendly. I was pregnant last year for half of the school year, and then when I had my son, I was able to bring him to live weekends. He’s here right now. Actually, it’s awesome that I can still take care of him and be a part of this, I just kept staying because it brought me so much benefit. I trust myself more, feel like I’m more connected to my purpose and my authenticity, and have healthier relationships. My mom, we’re way closer now, my husband and I were just on the same team. Now, I’ve lost some friends, but I’ve gained some more authentic relationships. For me, you.”

 

Abby

Minneapolis, Minnesota

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“My name is Abby, and I’m here from Minneapolis, Minnesota. I was going through a divorce when I heard the smart couple podcast and the seed was planted. A lot of the testimonials I heard from Jayson, interviewing various people, just making me come something that I could benefit from. Yeah, it’s been the best thing I’ve ever done, honestly, just for so many reasons, not only relationship wise, but just for my own self, being able to feel stronger and to actually get the relationships with others, friends and family that I have always dreamt of having. I’m currently in a relationship where it’s like considered partner boys. It’s very new though. With my ex husband, it’s been amazing. We’re able to be really good friends. It’s only been a year since it got divorced and but we’re able to co parent, be great friends. Relationship with my kids has significantly improved. I’m doing a lot of work outside of this course as well, but this course has been the top thing has changed. It being freshly divorced was something that was really difficult to deal with, and I felt like I didn’t know myself. I felt like I was confused, kind of about the world, and it just felt like I could have really spiraled into a horrible direction, but I knew I didn’t want to do that. So this school just offered a tangible way for me to kind of go the direction I wanted to go, which was be healthy and full and nourished, versus the opposite way. So it’s a big deal you.”

 

Julie

Orem, Utah

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Hi, I’m Julie, and I’m from Orem, Utah. I was married for 19 years and divorced in 2016 and I’ve been single since prior to getting into the program, I knew I needed something more, and there was something more for me to learn. I thought I was fine, and I thought I had done a lot of work in my career. I was actually had in my mind. I thought I need a mentor, and I wanted to grow myself. Jayson was the keynote speaker at an event that I was attending, and his works just resonated with me so strongly. And I went up after and asked him, How do I learn that? How can I learn about what you just talked about? And he he said, join the school. I had no idea that I just I was missing so many tools to communicate and to repair and to be healthy in relationship. I have four children. It really impacted how I show up for them, but it feels a lot more clear. It feels more honest, and that I’m really able to hold myself stronger, my family, my friends, with dating.”

Magda

Cee Cee

Nora

 

Rob

California

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“Hi. My name is Rob and I’m from motionside, California. I was in an on and off relationship with my girlfriend for about four and a half years. Came to the relationship school sort of feeling like, like there was something wrong, like it was a lot of conflict, and really couldn’t figure out why it was happening. My inability to deal gracefully with conflict showed up in other places. We done this agreement where we’d be in a relationship for a year and a day and I’m breaking up, just going to stick with it, do all the work. And the beginning, I thought that we’re just going to do the year, and then we’re going to find out we’re not imagining with our separate ways. After going through deeper for about nine months, I can say that we’ve oddly reached a point that I thought that we never would have reached. Getting a clearing in my relationship helped me with communicating with almost everyone else in my life, in my head. It’s the most scalable skill, the best deal that I could give myself if I learned how to interact with other people.”

 

Brittney E.

Oregon

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“It is difficult to put into words the vast gifts that I received from my RCT experience. I keep telling people it was life changing. And it truly was markedly life changing. I went in as one individual and came out as another one entirely. I have been in the field of psychology and counseling since 1995. I love the field and know that I am on track for my life purpose yet was feeling stalled and stagnant. I was starting to feel burned out and I shifted my career trajectory into private practice and went about the business of acquiring new knowledge and skills specific to coaching. I found Jayson pretty quickly through his podcasts and shortly after listening to the majority of them I made the commitment to the RC1 course. I graduated from the course feeling more confident in my skill level working with clients and with a renewed vigor for my career. On top of that I have deeply connected with my RC1 cohort who I consider to be family. We continue to meet and connect several times a month and have created our own Women’s Group. I feel forever indebted to Jayson and the entire TRS team.When I enrolled in DPIR I did so because I was wanting a relationship upgrade and some increased skills within my role as a counselor in private practice.I had an idea of what I would be offered but I feel I got even more than expected. Not only did I get a download of robust, practical skills to utilize in ALL of my relationships but I was also graced with the benefits of being connected to a thriving, supportive community. Jayson and his team are very skilled and authentically relate and support each member of the group. They also facilitate a process of community building that is unprecedented in my experience. I recommend this class for anyone looking to learn more than you ever could in a self help book or class currently advertised.”

 

CeeCee

Prague

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“it was a really good timing personally, to have done the relationship mastery course and the relationship coaching course to the background of my personal life. Because personally, speaking, like, I actually have moved across the country to live in Czech Republic, Prague due to the fact of, like, you know, trauma that was happening in my life back in Canada, I didn’t know how to handle my relationship environment. I definitely left on a very like ghosty note, like I’m leaving, I’m cutting off everybody else to start somewhere new, and Czech Republic, like the course, has really challenged me to confront those hard conversations that I didn’t really have the capacity to at the time when I was like, deeply, like, traumatized and I deeply confused and deeply did not know how to navigate all those big emotions, to 10 years later, with the tool belts and sets that I was like learning from the course to like, confront basically every major person that played a part in That situation of mine, and that was just incredibly healing for me, because I think it just really challenged, like, the maladaptive narratives that like came out of like that trauma, to face them head on with the support of the community. Yeah, it just, it was, it was just very, just like, transformative and just very moving to experience. Because it’s almost like I didn’t think it was possible with the course and wanting to just test out sort of how I could apply this in my life. I like went for it and just brought up hard conversations that was really a long time ago, but also led to so much healing, and I guess relational transformation there.”

Liliana

Monica

Aimee

 

Corrine

Canada

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I did RC1, which is the first level of Relationship Coaching… Was very eager to learn about myself, learn about my helping abilities with people. And in reality I know I’m a helper, I know I like to rescue sometimes, I know that sometimes I can lose a lot of energy in connections with other people when they’re going through something just with my own exertion. So I was really ready to just be like, “Okay, how do I do this? How do I help people and not kill myself while I’m doing it?” We just started coaching individuals within a month. I felt super prepared. I had taken DPIR previously so I knew the skills were ingrained, I knew I had some background going into it and almost immediately, the clients that I had were just mirrors showing me all the ways in my life where I tried to help people, transferring that into coaching and seeing how it doesn’t work. So it was a serious self-exploration of where am I getting emotionally enmeshed with my clients that it’s getting in a way for me to actually just help them? And just having mentors there, the live feedback, all of that was essential to me. And now at the end of the nine months, I’ve realized there are ways to help people where I don’t need to exhaust myself because it’s changed my life. I’ve also seen where my relationships have grown, especially the one with my mother who was one of the most challenging ones when I was here two years ago. In high school, I said on my bucket list that I wanted to have a continuously evolving relationship with my mother, and I really can think of this education here and my willingness as well to come and do the work that my mom’s not the most challenging person for me anymore. And I feel so much closer to her.”

 

Corrina

Michigan

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I’m finishing up the RC1 program and before, with DPIR, I had learned so much. I dove into the water, if you will, and came out just immersed in really knowing more about myself and feeling even more support in this community and knowing so much more about relationship, and now also going through the RC1 program, I feel clarity and the ability to articulate what’s true for me and to really stand in my truth, which has been a huge part of challenges in my journey. And a beautiful part of that is feeling surrounded by a community that holds true to staying in your integrity and supporting and challenging each other, which is super fantastic, and tools to help me learn about myself. Like if I get triggered, I have specific tools to navigate my triggers, if you will. And that for me is a huge piece. So rather than going around and, for example, blaming others, I know that I can look at myself and be an author of my life rather than a victim. And being able to set boundaries is also a huge part of that. And even before the boundaries part, through the Relationships School, I’ve been able to get clear on what’s even important to me and what kind of boundaries do I want to set, and then how do I even do that I would absolutely recommend this program because I have experienced more confidence in myself. I’ve experienced clarity in myself and in relating with others. I would just add gratitude for this community and what feels like home and feels like family for me.”

 

Taylor

★ ★ ★ ★ ★

“I’m here as both a deeper student and also an RC one student. Those are overlapping, so I’m studying how to be a relationship coach, as well as learning the deeper material. I’ve always struggled with conflict. I grew up in a pretty chaotic home, and conflict always felt kind of aggressive to me, and so a lot of why I’m here is to learn how to do conflict, taking a deep breath and kind of letting conflict be okay, and reframing the story that I have about conflict. As a coach, I really am enjoying learning how to separate my own reactions and my own perceptions from how to serve someone else and really listen to them. I realize in this coach training that there are a lot of perceptions that I’m just making up internally and sort of projecting that onto other people. So it’s really great to be able to separate my stuff from the stuff that someone else is bringing to that session. It’s a great balance between scientifically solid and sort of heartfelt experience at the same time. And so I really appreciate that a lot about Jason’s program, the science behind what he’s teaching is very legit, but at the same time, I feel like I can come here as a whole person, and I don’t have to check my heart at the door. I think that all of us, if we’re honest, could use a lot of work in the way we do relationships. And I hope that kind of the stigma around getting help for that can change, and I hope it comes more into the mainstream where it’s understood that people do need help with relationships. “