Jason coaches two women live on the podcast. How should you deal with the experience of a long-term partner ghosting you? What should you do when you feel self-doubt and loneliness? How can you find meaning in the end of a long-term relationship? You won’t want to miss the chance to sit in on this powerful coaching session with Jayson, Katie and Camille.
Timestamps:
4:09 – Katie’s story
8:27 – Being there for yourself
16:26 – Katie’s personal growth journey
26:17 – Camille’s story
29:56 – Dealing with a partner who ghosted
37:46 – Finding meaning in the end of a relationship
Helping children learn to be financially responsible is one of the most important jobs that parents have. James Ure joins Jayson to talk about how a family economy can help you give your child the best chance to achieve success and independence when they leave home. Should you pay your child for chores? How much of an allowance should you give your child? What is the difference between bribery and empowerment? How can you teach your child the importance of saving, investing, and giving to charity? You won’t want to miss this insightful conversation.
Jayson and Ellen team up to talk about working with men in coaching and therapy. How can you tell when a man is ready to grow? How does couples’ work help men? What are the advantages of attending a men’s group? Are men more comfortable with male or female therapists? If you’re a man or you have men in your life, you won’t want to miss this insightful conversation.
Timestamps:
6:16 – Ways that men get stuck
10:52 – Working through men’s defensiveness
13:56 – Recognizing men’s issues
17:27 – How male clients project
21:10 – Are men more comfortable with male or female therapists
Bruce was one of THE pivotal factors in helping me marry my wife before she slammed the door shut on me. Hear that story in this episode and why it’s so common for couples to struggle. Bruce offers a powerful frame for relationship and intimacy and makes the distinction between the developmental work we need to do, and the possibility that we are “already free” in relationship. Check it.
Timestamps:
4:29 – Jayson’s history with Bruce
7:22 – Dealing with contradictions in relationships
15:11 – The value of separateness
23:04 – The practice of personal responsibility
27:26 – Bruce shares about his marriage
32:37 – How Bruce became a therapist
38:42 – What is a successful relationship?
43:19 – The impact of parenting on Bruce
47:13 – Sexual intimacy in a long-term relationship
What’s wrong with wanting a healthy relationship? Jayson and Ellen are here to break it down. “Healthy” is a poorly defined concept, which can create nebulous expectations that are impossible to live up to. If you’ve written yourself off because you believe you’re incapable of having healthy relationships, it’s time to level up and start focusing on how you can foster growth-oriented relationships going forward. Tune in to learn how you can set realistic expectations and define the relationship experience that you want. It’s time to plan for reality and aspire for greatness.
Timestamps:
4:57 – Defining what “healthy” means
7:09 – Deciding on the relationship experience you want
8:41 – Creating realistic expectations
11:14 – Plan for reality, aspire for greatness
15:00 – Don’t write yourself off
16:49 – Growth oriented relationships
19:17 – Action steps
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Ellen joins Jayson to discuss menopause and its impact on relationships. What is menopause? Do women in non-western cultures experience menopause differently than women in western cultures? What happens to women’s hormones during menopause? What about hormone replacement therapy? Tune in to hear Jayson and Ellen share their personal experiences surrounding menopause and learn how you can nurture your relationships through the menopausal journey.
Timestamps:
3:34 – What is menopause?
7:02 – How does menopause impact relationships?
13:53 – How does culture impact the experience of menopause?
16:50 – Why are resources for menopause scarce?
19:01 – What happens to women’s hormones during menopause?
