Be the most resourced person during any upset or conflict by learning the basics of how to communicate during conflict and stress.

Be honest. You want to feel connected more than disconnected, right? You want to feel accepted more than judged. If that’s the case, it’s up to you to make that happen.

Stop tolerating people who don’t get you, understand you, and know you. It’s time to uplevel your relational life and it starts with the person in the mirror.

All you need are a few simple, yet powerful tools to learn how to be a badass during emotionally intense moments in relationships. We all want to belong and be accepted for who we are. So come make it happen!

 It’s Time To Discover The Number One Divorce & Break Up Prevention Skill

It’s shocking to me how many break ups and blow outs could be avoided if people learned one thing…

…CONFLICT.

My wife and I fought a lot during our first three years of our relationship. We had two very difficult and emotional break ups. 

But then we found our way and learned that conflict is a doorway into deeper connection.

Not only that, we found that it’s good for our health. 

When the stress between us is down and our connection is clear of triggers, we not only feel better, but we can accomplish so much more.

Plus, the brain research is clear…

If you cannot, and do not, learn to regulate your emotions, shut down, or reactivity during or after an argument, disagreement or fight, you will not only negatively impact your brain development, but you will lose relationship over the long haul. 

People who don’t figure this out, end up feeling alone and/or being alone.

Check this quote out from the International Business Times:

“Exposure to frequent conflicts between parents can impair brain development in children and place them at a greater risk of several mental health issues, researchers reveal.”

It’s just true now.

It’s what a lot of psychologists thought, but now we have the facts.

Or how about this from Couples Attachment Expert Stan Tatkin:

“Insecurity and insecure attachment negatively affect brain performance. Development can be slowed down because the brain is using most of its resources to manage being in survival mode instead of being free to move toward evolution, growth, and complexity.”

Yikes!

I wish there was a way to make conflict resolution a required part of the classroom in schools everywhere (this will happen soon, stay tuned). We’d thrive instead of survive…

But since it’s not being taught in schools and you never learned it in schools, and because no couple can avoid conflict successfully over time, I invite you to learn with me, right here, right now.

Come to “Relationship School” right now and learn the most vital skill that all successful couples understand:

Conflict.

If I had to choose only one skill, out of the countless I know, to help couples make it long term learning “how to fight well” is the one I’d choose.

In my two decades of experience with families and couples, this was the missing skill I observed every single time because it’s what had families and parents dragging their kids into forced treatment where I worked back in the day. The unwillingness or inability to do conflict well was the determining failure factor of every single family I knew. Above addiction, above mental illness, and far above anything else.

Later on in my career, same thing… The inability or unwillingness to do conflict was the only reason individuals and couples came in to see me when I was a licensed psychotherapist for almost ten years.

So…

• Don’t be a crippled couple when it comes to having a thriving partnership.
• Don’t be an unprepared individual when you get in your next relationship.
• Don’t let your inability or unwillingness ruin your future awesome partnership.
• Don’t let your fight/flight/freeze response drive your partner away…

You can do this.

Embracing conflict will make you a stronger and more confident person and couple.
Learning how to fight well and deal with your inevitable upset will change your freakin’ life.

You will be sought out by friends, family members, and co-workers as they flail along in disagreements and distance. You will be THE person that can stop drop and deal.

Or, do you want to put this off until you are in a relationship crisis again?

If you want to go for it, I applaud your efforts for making it this far in your life and this far to reach this page. It means you are pretty damn serious about learning this one for good.

Because this is like riding a bike…

…once you get it, you’ve got it for the rest of your life.

And, since the bumps in the road will always be there in your interpersonal relationships, you can rest assured knowing you have the powertools to deal with any challenge that comes into your relationship life.

This weekend goes beyond arguments and deals with the heart of our unrest with the tension between you and others.

If you want to not only learn how to achieve a win-win resolution all the time, but also how to be a resilient warrior when you have ANY interpersonal challenge with family, friends or co-workers, then this Intensive holds the keys to your new kingdom and to a much more empowered future.

See you in there!

Big respect,
Jayson