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Couples Coaching: Anya & Bodhi Part 2 – Jayson Gaddis – #490

 

Jayson coaches the couple, Anya and Bodhi. The last time this couple appeared on the podcast was in episode #364 when they were in the midst of deciding whether to stay together or break up. Since their last appearance, they have grown into a strong and stable couple. In this episode, they discuss the turning point in their relationship that led to them staying together. They also work through current tensions in their relationship related to conflicting schedules and navigating a small living space. You won’t want to miss this insightful conversation.

Timestamps:

  • 5:17 – Anya & Bodhi’s turning point
  • 13:23 – Individual growth
  • 20:00 – Getting to the root of relationship tension
  • 33:34 – Feeling trapped by a lack of connectedness
  • 39:05 – Spontaneity vs. responsibility
  • 43:00 – Different schedules
  • 47:00 – Helping your partner feel less judged
  • 1:00:30 – Being true to yourself vs. being considerate
  • 1:08:59 – Action step

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Teen Talk: An Intimate Conversation With My Son – Jayson & Lucian Gaddis – 489

 

Jayson is joined by his son Lucian for a conversation about the unique challenges of being a teenager in high school. What are the challenges of being from a relationally focused family? What kinds of stereotypes do teens face? Why do so many parents over-parent their kids? You won’t want to miss this candid father-son conversation.

Timestamps:

  • 3:52 – Boys in high school
  • 5:28 – Social media apps
  • 6:19 – Waldorf vs. public high school
  • 9:21 – The relational family experiance
  • 16:41 – Challenges high school kids face
  • 20:25 – Over-parenting
  • 23:41 – How to get teenagers involved

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The Trap of Falling in Love – Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder – 488

 

Is it possible to truly love someone while you’re still infatuated with them? In this episode, Jayson and Ellen talk about the trap of falling in love and why it’s important to learn to live with the reality of who your partner actually is instead of projecting your fantasies onto them. How can you make your partner your priority every day? What should your relationship boundaries be? It’s time to take a deep dive into the world of love after infatuation.

Timestamps:

  • 2:16 – Infatuation vs. love
  • 6:16 – Reality vs. fantasy
  • 20:00 – Accepting people for who they are
  • 24:48 – Know your relationship boundaries
  • 28:16 – Love after infatuation
  • 31:52 – Our impact on others

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Dealing with Division and Getting Unstuck – Jayson Gaddis – 487

 

Jayson talks about dealing with division in the world, digital minimalism and getting unstuck in your relationship. Can solving division in the home help make the world a better place? How do you know when you’re stuck as a couple? What should you do if you’re stuck? Would you like to be the next guest on The Relationship School Podcast? Listen in to find out more!

Timestamps:

  • 4:01 – Couples, how do you know when you’re stuck?
  • 11:47 – Dealing with division
  • 19:25 – Action steps

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Coaching Session: From Being Ghosted to Self Love – Jayson Gaddis – 486

 

Jason coaches two women live on the podcast. How should you deal with the experience of a long-term partner ghosting you? What should you do when you feel self-doubt and loneliness? How can you find meaning in the end of a long-term relationship? You won’t want to miss the chance to sit in on this powerful coaching session with Jayson, Katie and Camille.

Timestamps:

  • 4:09 – Katie’s story
  • 8:27 – Being there for yourself
  • 16:26 – Katie’s personal growth journey
  • 26:17 – Camille’s story
  • 29:56 – Dealing with a partner who ghosted
  • 37:46 – Finding meaning in the end of a relationship
  • 46:51 – Finding your anchor

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Allowance, Chores, Family Economy & Empowering your Kids with Money – James Ure – 485

 

Helping children learn to be financially responsible is one of the most important jobs that parents have. James Ure joins Jayson to talk about how a family economy can help you give your child the best chance to achieve success and independence when they leave home. Should you pay your child for chores? How much of an allowance should you give your child? What is the difference between bribery and empowerment? How can you teach your child the importance of saving, investing, and giving to charity? You won’t want to miss this insightful conversation.

Timestamps:

  • 8:31 – What is a family economy?
  • 13:55 – Creating incentives for kids
  • 25:55 – Tracking a family economy without an app
  • 37:41 – Using money and screentime as motivators
  • 41:54 – Bribing vs. empowering
  • 45:37 – Implementing a family economy
  • 53:31 – The Greenlight app
  • 57:46 – Big purchases
  • 1:01:09 – Where to find James
  • 1:02:34 – James’ advice for high school students
  • 1:03:40 – Action steps

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