AMA: I’ll Never Leave You, Developing Trust, Looking Through Your Partner’s Phone, And More

This week my wife Ellen and I tackle a couple of your questions that got a lot of heat online.

Sarah wrestles with how to realistically reassure her partner that she’s not going anywhere when she doesn’t actually know this for a fact (she’s no psychic).

Linda wonders about how to reinstall trust and move forward after her partner breaks into her phone and reads a private text conversation.

We discuss how our relationships are the strength that can help us deal with the unknowns of tomorrow and appropriate ways of relating in order to steer your relationship toward a secure partnership.

An Intimate Coaching Session With An Anxious-Avoidant Couple – 395

What would you do if you got 51 text messages from your partner if you needed space? What would you do if your partner took space and continued to be distant with no return time? These are very normal anxious/avoidant relationship dynamics. 

In this episode I coach a couple through their anxious avoidant dynamic. I hope it serves you.

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For Parents Struggling To Be A Team – Jayson and Ellen – 394

Do you find yourself often at odds or in conflict with your partner/co-parent?  Have you agreed to disagree and compartmentalize parenting responsibilities?  Are you stuck in your familial-parental roles (one parent = primary breadwinner, the other = primary parent)? 

If yes, this episode is a great listen for parents (or aspiring parents, parents-to-be, and separated-co-parents) who can relate to desiring more cohesive collaboration in their parenting game.

If you get a lot from this episode, head to www.relationshipschool.com/upgrade to learn more about the course Ellen and I co-created for partners who need support learning to collaborate.

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The Nervous System, Deep Parenting, Jayson’s Journey, and More… Coffee with Jayson & Ellen – 393

Do you ever wonder if or how your kids experience your anxiety/stress levels? How does your nervous system and theirs inform one another? Do you take time to reflect on where you are in your journey as a human and how that may affect your capacity to develop resiliency?

Join my wife Ellen and I to discuss how being mindful of our nervous system can help us build resilient children.

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AMA: Managing Triggers, Keeping Score, And Disagreeing Too Much – Jayson / Ellen – 392

How do you manage triggers and share emotions at the same time? Ever keep score in a partnership? Ugh. Do you feel like you are disagreeing too much? Join my wife and I as we help you address all of these as it relates to your questions.

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Co-Regulation, Yoga & Our Kids–Coffee Date with Jayson & Ellen – 391

How do we help each other feel safe and secure? Tune in to listen to Ellen, and I’s experiential conversation series “Rando Chat” over a cup of coffee. In this week’s episode, we discuss our day, our family, and how we co-regulate just by existing in one another’s orbits as a couple and family. 

Enjoy the episode, and let us know your thoughts and feelings about this experimental episode in the comments.

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