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Coaching Session: From Being Ghosted to Self Love – Jayson Gaddis – 486

Coaching Session: From Being Ghosted to Self Love – Jayson Gaddis – 486

 

Jason coaches two women live on the podcast. How should you deal with the experience of a long-term partner ghosting you? What should you do when you feel self-doubt and loneliness? How can you find meaning in the end of a long-term relationship? You won’t want to miss the chance to sit in on this powerful coaching session with Jayson, Katie and Camille.

Timestamps:

  • 4:09 – Katie’s story
  • 8:27 – Being there for yourself
  • 16:26 – Katie’s personal growth journey
  • 26:17 – Camille’s story
  • 29:56 – Dealing with a partner who ghosted
  • 37:46 – Finding meaning in the end of a relationship
  • 46:51 – Finding your anchor

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Allowance, Chores, Family Economy & Empowering your Kids with Money – James Ure – 485

Allowance, Chores, Family Economy & Empowering your Kids with Money – James Ure – 485

 

Helping children learn to be financially responsible is one of the most important jobs that parents have. James Ure joins Jayson to talk about how a family economy can help you give your child the best chance to achieve success and independence when they leave home. Should you pay your child for chores? How much of an allowance should you give your child? What is the difference between bribery and empowerment? How can you teach your child the importance of saving, investing, and giving to charity? You won’t want to miss this insightful conversation.

Timestamps:

  • 8:31 – What is a family economy?
  • 13:55 – Creating incentives for kids
  • 25:55 – Tracking a family economy without an app
  • 37:41 – Using money and screentime as motivators
  • 41:54 – Bribing vs. empowering
  • 45:37 – Implementing a family economy
  • 53:31 – The Greenlight app
  • 57:46 – Big purchases
  • 1:01:09 – Where to find James
  • 1:02:34 – James’ advice for high school students
  • 1:03:40 – Action steps

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Working With Men in Coaching and Therapy – Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder – 484

Working With Men in Coaching and Therapy – Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder – 484

 

Jayson and Ellen team up to talk about working with men in coaching and therapy. How can you tell when a man is ready to grow? How does couples’ work help men? What are the advantages of attending a men’s group? Are men more comfortable with male or female therapists? If you’re a man or you have men in your life, you won’t want to miss this insightful conversation.

Timestamps:

  • 6:16 – Ways that men get stuck
  • 10:52 – Working through men’s defensiveness
  • 13:56 – Recognizing men’s issues
  • 17:27 – How male clients project
  • 21:10 – Are men more comfortable with male or female therapists
  • 24:48 – Men’s groups
  • 29:44 – How couples work helps men
  • 31:35 – How to get men to change
  • 34:09 – Making sure a man is ready to grow
  • 36:34 – Action steps

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How Therapist Bruce Tift Helped Me Have the Balls to Marry My Wife – Bruce Tift – 483

How Therapist Bruce Tift Helped Me Have the Balls to Marry My Wife – Bruce Tift – 483

 

Bruce was one of THE pivotal factors in helping me marry my wife before she slammed the door shut on me. Hear that story in this episode and why it’s so common for couples to struggle. Bruce offers a powerful frame for relationship and intimacy and makes the distinction between the developmental work we need to do, and the possibility that we are “already free” in relationship. Check it.

Timestamps:

  • 4:29 – Jayson’s history with Bruce
  • 7:22 – Dealing with contradictions in relationships
  • 15:11 – The value of separateness
  • 23:04 – The practice of personal responsibility
  • 27:26 – Bruce shares about his marriage
  • 32:37 – How Bruce became a therapist
  • 38:42 – What is a successful relationship?
  • 43:19 – The impact of parenting on Bruce
  • 47:13 – Sexual intimacy in a long-term relationship
  • 55:43 – Personal responsibility
  • 1:01:19 – Bruce’s book, Already Free

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What’s Wrong With Wanting a Healthy Relationship? – Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder – 482

What’s Wrong With Wanting a Healthy Relationship? – Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder – 482

 

What’s wrong with wanting a healthy relationship? Jayson and Ellen are here to break it down. “Healthy” is a poorly defined concept, which can create nebulous expectations that are impossible to live up to. If you’ve written yourself off because you believe you’re incapable of having healthy relationships, it’s time to level up and start focusing on how you can foster growth-oriented relationships going forward. Tune in to learn how you can set realistic expectations and define the relationship experience that you want. It’s time to plan for reality and aspire for greatness.

Timestamps:

  • 4:57 – Defining what “healthy” means
  • 7:09 – Deciding on the relationship experience you want
  • 8:41 – Creating realistic expectations
  • 11:14 – Plan for reality, aspire for greatness
  • 15:00 – Don’t write yourself off
  • 16:49 – Growth oriented relationships
  • 19:17 – Action steps

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How Menopause Changes You and Your Relationships – Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder – 481

How Menopause Changes You and Your Relationships – Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder – 481

 

Ellen joins Jayson to discuss menopause and its impact on relationships. What is menopause? Do women in non-western cultures experience menopause differently than women in western cultures? What happens to women’s hormones during menopause? What about hormone replacement therapy? Tune in to hear Jayson and Ellen share their personal experiences surrounding menopause and learn how you can nurture your relationships through the menopausal journey.

Timestamps:

  • 3:34 – What is menopause?
  • 7:02 – How does menopause impact relationships?
  • 13:53 – How does culture impact the experience of menopause?
  • 16:50 – Why are resources for menopause scarce?
  • 19:01 – What happens to women’s hormones during menopause?
  • 21:54 – Jayson’s perspective
  • 30:40 – Keeping your partner in mind
  • 37:24 – Resource recommendation
  • 41:51 – HRT

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