Boundaries are essential in a partnership and Terri Cole knows a lot about them. We talk about getting sober, parenting her inner child, what it takes to have your marriage as a top priority and what women can do to balance being independently strong with interdependently connected. This podcast interview is fun and full of gems. Here are a few of the highlights: SHOWNOTES
- Terri’s story [10:00]
- The 3 questions you need to ask yourself when you get triggered [21:00]
- What is ‘transference’ and how to we ‘repeat realities’? [23:00]
- How you can become more knowledgeable about your internal experience [26:00]
- Why is it important to do inner-child work? [27:00]
- What is a ‘Downloaded Love Blue-Print’, and how does it affect every relationship we have? [32:00]
- Examples of language you can use to support your partner when they’re triggered [42:00]
- 1 simple boundary everybody needs [49:00]
- Consequences vs threats [55:00]
HELPFUL LINKS
- Terri’s website
- Terri’s youtube
- Boundary Bootcamp
- Real Love Revolution
- Embracing Conflict: Live Weekend Intensive
- 3 Keys To Work Through Differences & Disagreements Quickly
- Roots Community
- The Relationship School®
- Facebook – Jayson Gaddis Fan Page
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GUEST BIO Terri Cole is a New York-based, licensed psychotherapist, relationship expert and founder of The Real Love Revolution and Boundary Bootcamp.
Really like your podcast. Do you think that intercultural relationships (a couple coming from very different cultures) can have a healthy and happy relationship too?
Terri do you have any children of your own?