Patsy Semkoff

Have you ever wondered “how did I get to this place in my life?” Or have you ever woke up to the relationships with your partner, family, friends and co-workers to not be what you once thought they were? These are startling self-realizations, for sure.

What if someone could help you figure out what is happening in and around you relationally with others?

These questions weighed on me as I hit a deep valley in my life. I was in a big life-change: a cross-country move with my husband and teens during the pandemic. When my remote job ended, I realized just how much resentment I carried. I also realized how much disconnection existed in my marriage. I needed something….but what was that something? I didn’t know where to even start. I felt stuck.

Learning how to own my part, being more empathetic, using active listening and allowing myself space to grow and develop were some of the greatest ways to reconnect with myself and to those closest to me. Today my relationships show the benefits as my work continues. And I can help you get to this place too!

My life experiences include: marriage of 25 years with joys/challenges throughout; parent of 3 children; near-death pregnancy complication; infertility; both a biological and transracial adoptive parent; college athlete – resulting in two ACL knee surgeries; children’s advocate through schools/community re: racism; service-oriented work involving children (2 years – 5th grade) and older adults up to age 92, plus more.