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LAST CALL! For Therapists & Coaches Who Want More Effective Tools...

Resolve ANY Relational Issue In Half The Time With This Map & These Tools
(And Teach Others To Do The Same)

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After experiencing authentic transformation in my intimate relationship, I have continued my work with Jayson for over a year now because I realize that his work and programs reach far beyond the realm of personal relationships. I have experienced massive shifts that have enriched my business partnerships with both clients and colleagues. So much so that I have enlisted his support in revising the facilitation tools and executive coaching programs to explore how we can elevate relationships at work and with our clients. I never expected to enrich my professional practice as much as I have. It has been a real gift!
Julie Arsenault

Founder, PIVOT

60 Days From Now You Will Become

More Educated as a Client or Student

If you want to help folks with their relationship problems, the right map and tools are essential. Without them, you’re still in the victim paradigm getting little to no results

A Relational Badass

Perhaps the most important modern day skill is the ability to connect and communicate deeply with other people, especially with your chosen life partner, family, and co-workers.

More Skilled As A Healer

Once you take this course, you’ll increase your effectiveness, which gets your more referrals and a sense of confidence necessary to help others tackle their relationship challenges.

Therapists, Coaches, and Healers!

Dear Practitioner,

I’m grateful you are here and that you choose to live a life of service.

In 2005 I received my master’s degree in psychology. It was a 3 year intensive program. I supplemented this work with a 3 year gestalt therapy training. While I was in grad school, I volunteered as an emergency psychiatric “intern” on a mental health crisis team to get more experience.

During my extensive studies, not one class was offered on relationship. Zero.

Many years later, I explored the field of coaching and saw that once again, there was no curriculum on relationship or intimacy.

And, what makes this so funny and interesting is that the bulk of what people come see you about are relationship issues. In other words, your clients (and you) struggle with:

  • Relationship to self
  • Relationship to a partner
  • Relationship to family members
  • Relationship to authority
  • Relationship to a life purpose
  • Relationship to kids
  • Relationship to friends
  • Relationship to money
  • Relationship to past hurts
In fact, I would argue that the vast majority of any issue your clients come to see you about, no matter what the surface complaint is, can be boiled down to one core problem:


That’s right.

Relationship is the common thread that runs throughout all of our lives.

So, if that’s true, then it seems prudent to have relationship trainings and courses in mainstream therapeutic and coaching schools around the globe (I’m working on that too. ? )

Because nothing specific was offered to me on relationship training, I devoured endless amounts of content and trainings to learn it myself.

And, I want to share some extremely effective tools to deal with your client’s relationship issues.

Not getting more educated about how to really work with your clients relationship problems, in my opinion, is a big disservice to them.

So, thanks for making it this far. Thank you for being interested in sharpening your relational sword.

In this 8 week course, you’ll be getting some of the most powerful relationship tools out there that you can use on yourself and your clients, starting tomorrow.

To me, “relationship fluency” is the greatest skill a healer, therapist, or coach, can have.

See you in there and thank you again for being committed to serving others,


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  • Requirements for going to the next level-7 Pillars
  • What’s really going on in challenged relationships
  • Communication and Conflict wizardry with the POS
  • Embodied Experiencing
  • Balancing thru the 180 Clarity to Freedom process


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  • Finding your power and courage out of the ashes
  • How conventional “Motivational Interviewing” is key to your success
  • Coaching vs Therapy
  • Captive Audience and Saying NO
  • Boundaries
  • How to give feedback skillfully


Your Guide for the Program

About Jayson Gaddis

Jayson Gaddis, relationship student & teacher and host of the Smart Couple Podcast, is on a mission to teach people the one class they didn’t get in school–”How to do Romantic Relationships.” That’s why he founded The Relationship School®. He was emotionally constipated for years before relationship failure forced him to turn his life over to learning about relationships. Now, he’s been married to his amazing wife since 2007 (after some brutal break ups) and has two beautiful kids. When he doesn’t live and breathe this stuff with his family, he pretty much gets his ass handed to him.

Jayson believes that the world will be a better place if we just knew how to effectively work out our differences. 

What You’ll Receive:

What You'll Receive: Over 15 hours of video and downloadable audio recordings

A private community with access to optional practice partners


PDFs, distinctions, and homework assignments to help you unlock your relational superpowers

This year has been a year of exponential growth. I have done an incredible amount of trainings and personal growth-work for over 15 years, and since listening to your podcasts and taking the RAP course, there is something really fundamental that has changed in me – I’ve dropped the victim mentality. I used to be quite addicted to my suffering and found my connection to others through this. I often felt reactive and assaulted by the world. This past year, I’ve been able to shift my relationship to myself in the most incredible and loving ways and show up for that hurt little one inside instead of being hijacked by some old traumatic story about abandonment or rejection. I know honor and validate my feelings instead of go into all the garbage in my mind trying to make things different than it actually is. I have been choosing to see every challenge as an opportunity for awakening and moving me more and more towards my true self. I want to thank you for being part of this awakening. I appreciate all of your fierce challenge and support – and all the work you’ve done yourself!
Shelby Leigh

LPD Somatic Psychotherapy, Dharma & Meditation

Some Of What We Will Cover

Class 1

As we launch the course, you immediately get the indestructible view and framework essential for creating deep long-lasting relationships. We cover some basic ground rules as well as the 7 pillars necessary to have extraordinary relationships.

We immediately start in and you learn 3 basic tools that you can begin to practice with anyone

  • Your goal
  • My goal
  • The 4 pillars we’ll be rocking during this 8 weeks (these are required for long-term relationship success with you and your clients)
  • The view (and the outdated, bankrupt view)
  • The mindset
  • Balanced People
  • 3 quick tools
  • Relationship black belts

Class 2

In class 2, we start to see how you are holding your clients back from their own breakthroughs.

You begin to work on yourself and start to see the “other side” of any human injury.

You’ll discover your superpower and why it’s so helpful (and sometimes unhelpful) as a healer.

You begin to learn the most powerful relationship tool I’ve found which helps you resolve issues that have lingered your entire life

  • The 2 foundational human needs
  • The core human injury
  • FRACKing.
  • What kind of clients (and people) you are currently attracting into your life
  • The 180 Clarity to Freedom Process and The 5 c’s
  • How your superpower came online
  • Dealing with your rescuer
  • If you are going to help people, we gotta tease out what you are tryin to work out, and replace it with clean help
  • Why Motivational Interviewing matters
  • Supervision/coaching

Class 3

In this class, we add on from the previous class and go deeper with the 180. This is where most people have been completely blind to their relationship traumas of the past.

I give you a basic map you can use with any client, any time to help them get to the core issue. Most therapists will spend months or even years trying to help someone get to the core issue. This step-by-step questionnaire takes care of it within a day or two.

You gotta get to the core issue or you’re wasting their time.

  • 5 C’s review and questions
  • Review basic tools +
  • Getting their world
  • Being “done” with an issue vs. transforming it
  • Balancing the core complaint
  • The 180 Clarity to Freedom process
  • Supervision/coaching

Class 4

Find out why androgyny, or a balance of opposites is key to any long-term relationship. Also take a look and see where you fall on the spectrum.

There is a very big difference between “advanced” relationship work and normal or conventional relationship work. You’ll want to know where you are and how it’s impacting your clients.

We also cover what happens when most normal people get triggered and why this matters, especially if you work with people directly.

  • Advanced Relationship Work vs normal relationship work
  • Androgyny
  • What happens when you get triggered
  • Core Complaint add ons
  • Communication 101
  • Supervision/coaching

Class 5

Perhaps the 2nd most powerful relationship tool, the POS is designed to facilitate ease of communication and understanding. 

Everything you’ve learned thus far gets put to the test here as you sort out what is important to you, and your client or partner.

This is one of the tools I went without for almost a decade in helping people and I can barely believe my skills were effective. This tool took everything to the next level and made facilitating relationship work, so much easier.

This tool also has huge cross over implications in education and business.

  • Communication 101 & POS
  • Therapy vs Coaching
  • Holding Space vs Hold and Challenge
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Supervision/coaching

Class 6

In this class we start to dip our toe into boundaries and why they matter in simple communication interactions. Not only with friends and family members, but with clients who ramble on.

We cover how to address all of this skillfully while holding your seat.

Then we dive into feedback. Most humans are starved of real, heart-centered, honest feedback. They need it and want it and it’s your job to give it to them. Listening alone is a waste of time. Learning how to reflect back what you see is paramount to healing work.

  • Captive Audience
  • 2 kinds of time outs
  • Giving and receiving feedback
  • Supervision/coaching

Class 7

The bulk of this class is spent on boundaries. 

Why they matter and how to do them. What works? What doesn’t?

Not getting boundaries is also detrimental to your relationship life.

  • How did the feedback go? Did you take a risk? Share at end…
  • Co-dependency (2 types)
  • Boundaries
  • Supervision/coaching

Class 8

As our course ends, I have equipped you with several amazing new relationship tools that will change your practice and how to coach people.

We dive into your needs and your client’s needs and why “needs” are so important when it comes to working with couples and individuals.

You will see the value of seeing relationship as a path and be able to describe it to your clients. You will have embrace the new technologies for helping others with their relationship problems.

Now, you’re ready to apply what you’ve learned with friends, clients, and anyone who wants a great relationship.

  • How did the NO go?
  • Describe relationship as a path
  • The difference between wants, needs, and shoulds
  • Non negotiable needs
  • The cost of not communicating well
  • The Judging Oath
  • What do you need to stay on it with the RAP work?
  • Supervision/coaching


I love the content of Relationship As a Path and Jayson’s style. I’m learning a lot about myself and seeing things from a different perspective. I am finding so many ways these tools relate to parenting and just life in general. I have to say I feel like I just want more!!
Abby Wyer, Portland, OR

Conscious Parenting Coach,


Bonus #1 - Class 9

Brand new material and new info from Jayson as he continues to expand and update the curriculum

Bonus #2 -Six Past Q&A Calls with Jayson

If you’re looking for even more Q&A, we’ll provide you with an additional six calls Jayson did in 2016 and early 2017.

Bonus #3 - Private FB community

A private members only Facebook group that provides accountability. You’ll join a strong crew who “have your back” because they are holding your feet to the fire.

Bonus #4 - Optional Practice Partners

Every week, you will have the option to meet and practice with one other person from the training. You will rotate so as to give and receive feedback from at least half of the community. Students who practice will simply go further.

Bonus #5 - Fulfill your Pre-req to Apprentice in The Relationship School®

The RAP course is required before you can apply to be an Apprentice in the School. The apprentice program is a 9-month deep dive training on how to become a certified Relationship Coach. There’s no other training like it on the planet!

Bonus #6- The Hidden Bonus

The hidden bonus here is that you will never work with people the same again! Life changing material coming your way…
I never hesitate to introduce anyone to Jayson’s teachings, and I’m realizing as I write this how rare that is. I’ve had the privilege of knowing him personally for enough years now to see he actually lives what he teaches, he seriously challenges anyone near him to live their best Right Now, and he’s rigorous about no fluff…only results you can actually ‘shake a stick at’. I want everyone to have a coach in their life that’s a deeply happy person themselves and actually skilled enough to help you find your unique best. Whoever you are I’m glad you’ve happened upon Jayson Gaddis.
Decker Cunov

Consultant & Mediator, Founder of Authentic World / Co-founder of the Integral Center

Jayson is a powerful and effective leader and teacher who has been upleveling the quality of men’s relationships and lives for the past twenty years. He leads by example, bringing abundant passion, integrity, and transparency to every aspect of his work. He knows how to be gentle, and he knows how to be tough. I trust his mind, his heart, and his gut.
Josh Levin

Life Coach, Psychotherapist

The RAP course has been monumental in facilitating deep healing and core transformation in how I engage in and understand relationship. Jayson’s mastery of this material has allowed me to access, understand, and most importantly heal aspects of myself that were yearning for attention but was unaware of. In just the first week alone, I have had numerous profound breakthroughs that have impacted not just my own life, the session work with my clients, but every relationship in my life!! Without hesitation, I can easily say that I have already gotten my money’s worth, I wholehearted recommend Jayson’s work for anyone serious about deepening their intimacy across the board, and who wants to have greater impact and fulfillment in every aspect of their lives.
Russell Feingold

Transformational Coach, Ceremonialist, and author of Heart Wisdom

Dagmar Schöter, 46 , PhD

Ecologist & Relationship School Apprentice, Russikon, Switzerland

Susan Clark, 64

Lab Technician / Artist / Inner Vision Practitioner, Boston,Massachusetts, USA

Jennifer Morrison, 49

Yoga Studio Owner/Instructor & Relationship School Apprentice, Portland, Maine USA

Please Note:

Except for one live Q&A, this is a recorded class, not a live one.

While the class material is recorded, you will get:

  • 16 hours of content
  • One live Q and A’s!
  • Lectures
  • PDFs
  • Homework
  • Audios
  • Videos

And a private facebook community to practice with


You can’t lose with this incredible guarantee!

Because I am fully committed to helping you change your relationship and your life, I want to offer you this 100% money back guarantee. You have 14 days from the date of purchase to test out the course. If you do the work and don’t feel that I’ve delivered on my promise, I’ll happily refund 100% of your money.

However… Important: To be eligible for a refund, I require your completed homework from the first 2 classes, as well as a written description of the changes you were making and the results you got. This means you must apply my teachings to your life and your relationships. I know that if you do, you’ll get results. But If you do the work and don’t get value, then I don’t deserve your money and I’ll cheerfully refund you 100% of your tuition. I do this because I’m looking for serious and committed students only. I take my learning environment seriously and maintain a very high standard of truth, integrity, encouragement, and inspired, action-oriented learning.


I'm single, will this do shit for me?
Please stop seeing you being single as a problem when learning relationship skills and badassery. Now is the time to concretize your relational arsenal so that when you enter a relationship, you are equipped to face more of you so that you can connect with her much more deeply.
What if I have to miss one or more of the live classes?
This course is recorded. You can work the material at your own pace. However, Jayson will be offering 2 live group coaching Q and A calls. Those calls will be recorded and posted within 24 hours in the members area as an MP4 file, or a downloadable Mp3 file. You can even email your questions in ahead of time and Jayson will answer them on the live calls.
When this training is over, will I have access to the course materials and the people in the training?
Yes. You will have access to the course for a minimum of 1 year and likely longer. You will also walk away with access to the community via a private FB group.
Is there a payment plan?
Of course. As stated above you can pay in full or in 2 monthly installments. Very little good comes out of paying nothing for something. People who put skin in the game, go the distance. Like any therapist or coach, you too can make this happen, even with your paycheck. Invest and watch the results start to happen.
Is this in person and do I need to live in Colorado?
No. This is a 100% virtual training. You can live anywhere in the world to make this happen. Virtual settings are perfect for self-study from home. If you choose to continue to study and apprentice with Jayson, you will need to make a trip out in the future for another apprentice course, but that is totally optional.
Can I access this training from my smart phone?
Yes. If you are like me, your phone goes with you everywhere and so you have access to this course at the tip of your fingers. You not only can log in to the members area and listen or watch previous modules, you can call in when we have a live class and ask questions by speaking or typing into your phone or tablet.