Jayson, Author at The Relationship School®

How & Why My Wife And I Chose Marriage – SC 50

In this episode, I bring on my better half, my wife to rock it out with me. We had fun exploring the early stages of our relationship and what had us “choose” each other. There are some funny and not so funny shares in this one. I’m grateful Ellen is joining us here and here’s to more to come from the two of us.

SHOWNOTES

How did Jayson and Ellen first meet? [9:07]
What you must learn about your partner before you decide to spend your life together. [14:30]
What had Ellen ask Jayson out? [15:05]
Shitty advice Jayson got from a therapist and an astrologer. [18:45]
How did Jayson overcome his “grass is always greener” pattern? [24:40]
One of Jayson’s best accomplishments of his life. [28:00]
The simple yet powerful distinction that Ellen did that allowed Jayson to choose to commit. [30:15]
How do you know if your partner is “The One”? [33:45]
A huge thing that must happen before you should even consider marriage. [35:00]
Jayson’s challenge to the listener, both for those in a relationship and single. [43:15]
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How To Deal With Value Differences – SC 49

In this episode, a listener asks about making your partner wrong and how to deal with them when you have very differing values. It’s a common challenge that some couples “wake up” to after being together a few years. And, it’s super tricky if you have kids and need to find common ground.

SHOWNOTES

The difference between making a partner wrong to avoid intimacy and doing it because of different values? [1:37]
How to parent when your parenting values are different? [3:40]
What you must learn about your partner before you decide to spend your life together. [5:10]

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Men And Their Relationship Issues – SC 48

In this short episode, I cover why men are so locked up relationally and 3 steps to help a guy transform this so that, you both can have a great relationship.

SHOWNOTES

What is at the core of men’s challenges in modern day. [3:20]
Some of the big pain points for men in relationships. [4:45]
What is the “boy code”? [5:15]
How Jayson struggled in relationships. [6:30]
Do men really know how to listen? [8:15]
Why shouldn’t believe when your man says he’s just “in a bad mood.” [12:00]
The missing step after getting good feedback. [15:05]
Jayson’s challenge to the men. [17:40]

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Powerful Sex Practices with Layla Martin – SC 47

In this episode I talk with Layla Martin, a zany and wise, sex teacher who will remind you of your brilliance in the bedroom. From handjobs to female self-pleasure practices, this one is full of powerful sex practices for a couple ready to deepen their sex life.

SHOWNOTES

What happened in Layla’s childhood that started her path to helping people improve their sex lives? [5:30]
Layla shares the biggest struggle and opportunity she sees in couples regarding sexuality. [10:40]
What do women and men each struggle the most with sexually? [12:00]
A simple exercise a woman can do to improve her sexual experience? [20:10]
A simple three-part exercise to do after sex that will deepen your sexual connection [26:15]
What to do when a woman has a stronger sex drive than her partner. [32:35]
How to respond when a guy loses his erection? [33:15]
Should a woman have sex even if she’s not wanting to? [34:05]
Layla explains one practice to transform a woman’s orgasms and sex life. [36:40]
Layla’s take on threesomes and polyamory. [37:15]

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[bctt tweet=”A lot women view sex as something that they put on, rather than something that they cultivate from the inside out. — Layla Martin”]

Guest Bio

Layla Martin is a next-generation sexuality and Tantra expert. She has over 100,000 subscribers to her weekly guidance on all things sex, relationships and love. Her work has been featured in the Huffington Post, Refinery 29, Women’s Health Magazine and Elite Daily. She makes sex and love mastery entertaining and hilarious. You can sign up for her free weekly videos at LaylaMartin.com.

Want A Peaceful Relationship? Learn This – SC 46

In this episode I give you 3 steps toward a more peaceful relationship. And, when I talk about peace in a relationship, it isn’t the BS fantasy most people think of. Check it out.

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