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End The Struggle With Him in 30 days

That’s right you smart, successful women out there... You can End the Struggle With Him in 30 Days
And, finally get the relationship you desire and deserve
YES- I WANT TO END MY STRUGGLE WITH HIM NOW
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Believe it or not, you’ve most likely been approaching this problem from the wrong direction.

You need help from a normal guy who used to be just like your man.

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  • Stuck
  • Shut down
  • Emotionally unavailable
  • Locked up
  • Resistant

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  • Not on Board
  • Tapped out
  • Too tired
  • Checked out
  • Etc.

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End the Struggle with Him goes beyond the standard “improve your relationship” fare.

It’s not about cosmetic fixes or slick tricks and techniques for achieving short-term results. It’s a deep dive into a whole new way of being in relationship and it provides a much-needed roadmap for negotiating relationship in an empowered way. Jayson’s style is clear and direct yet supportive, and it’s obvious he walks his talk. As for the course material — he definitely under-promised and over-delivered. The course not only gave me a number of tools to create a solid, fulfilling relationship that honors my needs, but it also provided me with a foundation for improving my relationship with myself. This is one of those rare courses that shifts your perspective, provides lasting change, and offers much more than what you paid for. Diane D, 43

My relationship with my husband has changed dramatically!

I took Jayson’s course a year ago and my relationship with my husband has changed dramatically! We are closer than ever emotionally, our sexual intimacy is stellar, and we have a strong spiritual bond. It took us 7 years to get here and this course was invaluable! Thank you Jayson Gaddis. Heather Robinson

What is End The Struggle With Him In 30 Days?

End Your Struggle With Him In 30 Days™ is a solution; a system, broken up into a 30-day course to get you out of the victim seat and into your ‘smart empowered woman’ seat so you can finally have the love you long for with your partner.

End the Struggle with Him is a straightforward approach to improving your relationship through unconventional tools that work. It’s cheaper and far less time consuming than processing with your friends, individual therapy, or couples therapy which generally don’t work to create lasting change with this specific issue.

How does it work?

Once you enroll you’ll receive immediate access to the student portal. Each week you receive a 45- 75 minute recorded coaching call where Jayson walks you through exactly what to do to help your man, with simple, but very effective practices you can do between classes.

You’ll hear from other women like you who have brought their intimate, raw, real questions about their unique situation/challenges with their partner, and I answer them directly, without holding back.

You will get downloadable PDFs, MP3s, and other materials to keep you on track, week-to-week so you can listen to classes whenever you like (ie. doing dishes, walking, running, driving), and rewind/listen as often as you like.

All course materials are immediately delivered so you have the flexibility to pace yourself.

As soon as you register, you’ll be sent to a private members area where you will find each video class, course homework, PDFs and mp3s.

Classes are divided into lecture and Q&A sections, tailored to your specific situation using the tools you’re learning.

TESTIMONIALS

What We Will Cover

The Powerful 180 “Clarity to Freedom” Process

(And the 1 critical view you need to have in order to succeed in ANY relationship) Most women see a HUGE shift right after this first class.

You will learn:

  • The most critical context needed to succeed during this 30 days, and how to apply it immediately.
  • Where you struggled before and encountered resistance fostering a new, positive vibe in your relationship.
  • How to stop spinning your wheels, get to the real issue (on your side), and dissolve it (clearing the issue usually results in a strong feeling of relief).
  • How to help your husband feel supported (instead of judged or challenged) which leads to less defensive behaviour.
  • The basic requirements you need to get the most out of this course.
  • The three key areas to focus on during the course.
  • What the underlying issue is with you and your man.
  • How to get to more clarity and freedom through a powerful process.
Male Psychology – Getting Inside His Head & Why He Is The Way He Is

You will also learn:

  • From a man who’s been there why it matters in this context (more details from Jayson’s story and other men).
  • About male psychology and male conditioning; why he’s emotionally unavailable and the most effective way to reach him.
  • The three hidden body language signs that indicate he will never change.
  • The three sentences he will say that will give you absolute confidence that he’s in this and wants to go for it with you (including how to distinguish between lip service and real-deal action).
  • How to gain certainty whether or not you should keep working at it, or cut your loses, walk away and save yourself time, money and energy.
  • What the boy and man code are and how it’s playing out with your man.
  • Your man’s biggest fear + the prime motivator for men.
  • Who the only support is in his life is…and why this is a relationship buzz kill.
How to Talk to Your Man Effectively & Why Things Are Not Working Between You Two

How to communicate effectively so that your relationship grows and deepens over time. Not getting this method of communication will keep driving wedges between you and increase time spent  fighting/ in disconnection.

You will also learn:

  • How his values and yours are likely clashing, why that is, and how to deal with it quickly.
  • About how you’ve abandoned your needs and why getting clear on them is crucial to communicate effectively with him.
  • How to identify yours and your partner’s non-negotiable pillars and why they are paramount in ending the struggle with him.
  • How to communicate with an intelligent new language that works with him consistently.
  • Personal examples from Jayson’s life regarding how he and his wife organize their values, preferences, and priorities.
  • Why Jayson won’t heal his immune system…or what it will take to heal it.
  • The five keys to a successful, healthy, resilient relationship.
  • The key reminder that makes or breaks a relationship.
  • The main reason he doesn’t want to join you in tackling this challenge.
  • How to create a more secure foundation in your relationship.
  • Linking values, preferences and priorities with each other.
Exactly What To Do Next

You will also learn:

  • How his values and yours are likely clashing, why that is, and how to deal with it quickly.
  • How to identify your/your man’s non-negotiable pillars.
  • The decision making strategy.
  • The exact signs to know if it’s time to stay and work, or leave.
  • His empowerment scale. The telling signs he’s in or already checked out.
  • Your empowerment scale which helps you step in or out.
Q&A

— You will learn from a community of women about how they have benefitted from the End The Struggle With Him in 30 Days course. Through this interactive Q&A, you will hear immediate feedback from Jayson on a variety of questions posed by participants (who originally took this course live). You will hear how the strategy and principles in this course effectively empowered women, and how beneficial it can be for you.

You will also learn:

  • The three types of shared contexts for relationship.
  • The 12-step integration plan.
  • Why it’s hard to do the hard thing sometimes.
  • Other women’s personal shares, questions, and contexts/examples.

100% Money-Back Guarantee

You can’t go wrong with this incredible guarantee.

You have 30 days from the date of purchase to test out the training.  If you do the work and don’t feel that I’ve delivered on my promise, I’ll gladly refund 100% of your money.

However…

To be eligible for a refund, I require your completed homework from the first two modules, as well as a written description of the changes you were making and the results you got.  This means you must apply the course teachings to your life and your relationships. If you do the work and don’t get value, then I don’t deserve your money and I’ll gladly refund you 100% what you paid for the course.

I do this because I’m looking for serious and committed students only. I take my learning environment seriously and maintain a very high standard of truth, integrity, encouragement, and inspired, action-oriented learning.

Click here to read ‘Refund Policy’ below. You have nothing to lose.

Normally this course fee is $447, but for a limited time, get it for a special price:

$397

YES! I'M READY TO END MY STRUGGLE WITH HIM NOW
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Jayson’s course was transformational!

In years of radical personal growth, I haven’t found anything that comes even close to his material, in terms of practicality, mindset, clear usable examples, hands on coaching and real life daily application! He will firmly help you identify what you are wanting, help you get clear on it, and move toward it. Be ready and willing to buckle yourself in for this ride. You are worth it. If you don’t believe that, you really need what he has to offer. Be prepared to be “met” and “seen” in a loving way you have never experienced before. He gets you. Thank you again. I’m so grateful for you, and for the Facebook friendship.” Melaney G | 42 Performing Artist, Southern Bend, IN

That was a wonderful first class!...

“It got me thinking A LOT and back to a mindframe of empowerment rather than Victim. Thank you Jayson and the women of this circle. I am really, honored to journey here with you and a empowered man who’s making waves with his work (Jayson). It gives me a standard too, of the mindframe of people man/women/people I want in my life and how it really does start with me.” Melina Seeto, 25 ESL Teacher, Czech Republic

ACTIONS speak louder than words!

“I stood for what I needed in relationship which meant ending the long-distance relationship I’ve been in; there was so much missing that I need. Also, setting boundaries by requesting to take a break from any communication while I heal has been extremely powerful (and unlike my overly clinging, fantasy-attachment behaviors from the past 5 months). In turn, he’s owned how his fear got in the way and has been quite expressive in how he feels about me. The most profound shift for me has been not getting sucked back into the relationship by getting hopeful based on him sharing his insights and expressing affection. After all, we’ve said it plenty of times here (and I raised my daughter on this one!).” Monique | 45 Program Specialist in eLearning & Open Education, Spokane, WA

Thank you for serving me powerfully at this critical juncture in my life.

It was a true wake-up call to me when I was in the middle of one of the most “successful” seasons of my business, yet watching three relationships that were very important to me experience deep challenges. I knew it did not matter how much success I created professionally, if my relationships were falling apart I would not be happy. I had to humble myself and admit that I was the common denominator in all three of those relationships, therefore, I was motivated to invest in breaking any of my own relating patterns that may have been contributing to the struggle. Having been deeply impacted by your free articles and webinars, as well as our podcast interview, I knew I could trust you and your craft. I knew you would give me tangible tools and strategies that actually worked, all the while honoring myself and the value of relationships as a path to growth. You helped me identify and break some relating patterns that have impacted my entire life—some of which were previously unconscious. You are the real deal. Vanessa Horn Speaker | Author | Business Coach

Thank for that golden guidance.

“I resisted every urge to talk about his actions, behavior, what I need him to do differently, all the ways he’s hurt me….etc. I only talked about my stuff. And I have you, Jayson, to thank for that golden guidance because that is not my MO. And it worked. He broke. The ice did shatter, the shell did fragment, and he melted everywhere.” Savannah

I feel more empowered, confident, joyful, genuine...

As a result of the impactful work I did in this course, I feel more empowered, confident, joyful, genuine, spontaneous, connected, and more present for myself and others. I noticed how other personal relationships in my life improved significantly during this course. For example, my relationship with my Mom is the best it has ever been, as well as other relationships including my coworkers, my students even random people I meet on the street. I am grateful to Jayson for his brilliance, passion and dedication to develop/teach this course with clarity, integrity, mastery and heart. Ana Integrated Movement Therapist, Seattle, WA

The support from you and the amazing women in this group is priceless.

“I just wanted to truly thank you Jayson for being my life raft. You continue to guide me as I discover who I am and learn what I want and do not want in relationships as I move forward. I truly believe that I could never have gotten to this place without you!!!!!!!!” Kimberly Glow | 47 Physician, Chicago, IL

It has made a massive impact on my life and I am very grateful.

“I want to let you know how much I LOVED your ESH in 30 days course, It was AWESOME. It completely shifted my marriage, which we were both thinking about separation, in a beautiful way! I was able to fully see and understand how much I have abandoned myself for the first time in my life. This course gave me my relationship with myself back, which is priceless! Reconnecting with myself improved all areas of my life; relationship, trusting myself, my confidence, in growing my business, in being able to better see all sides of conflict and to light the hell up and have fun again!! THANK YOU to you and for the incredible work you are doing, as it has made a massive impact on my life and I am very grateful.” Erin Holt | 33 BS, CSCS, TPI

It’s been a tremendous help to bring eye-opening clarity.

“Thank you for the 30 day ESH course. It’s been a tremendous help to bring eye-opening clarity to my relationship with MYSELF and my husband. I’ve been humbled and invigorated, to say the least. My man and I have decided to move forward together and are planning to reunite by end of the month to fully work on our relationship anew.” Brenda

This is the clarity I’ve been seeking after 2 years of various interventions.

“It’s only this weekend that I have had total clarity that ‘I’m out’. This is the clarity I’ve been seeking after 2 years of various interventions. Your straight talking, experience, the calls and exercises have enabled me to get here, thank you Jayson, this is a huge relief for me.” Amanda F

Your class was helpful to me.

I have been married 25 years and have eight kids ages 24 down to three years old. Yesterday I filed for divorce. I can’t say I feel good about it but I know it is something I had to do. Your class helped me see reality more clearly. Also I appreciated just the language you used for examples of expressing ourselves. Thank you. Anonymous

I am surprised by the effectiveness of your work.

It is exactly what I needed and was ready for. I have been able to dive down into myself and start sequencing some of my deepest known wounds. I know part of this is because I was hurting and ready for it. Also, your clarity, information and tools have pointed me right into to my body and heart. I feel myself softening, melting and expanding into this beautiful place where I am able to forgive and connect, not only with my husband and family, but also with others who I felt had “hurt me” over the years. I am so excited to see what triggers me next, excited to see how I will be broken open and able to love in a deeper more expansive way. Kathryn

I loved your course! It was an eye opener for me.

It made me realize that my problems aren’t unique and a lot of the outcomes lie within me. This whole course is dedicated to my maladjustment, it seemed to me. This was a new revelation. After years of blame and unsuccessfully handling the shut down guy, this was very empowering to see. Especially love your EHH description! I’m having to work on that. It looks wonderful when you model situations and how the outcome is directed by your approaches, I want to be able to follow it. I’m going to listen to the whole course again to get more insight. It is also tough for me to be shown my approach has been totally wrong. I used to think of myself as a “master” of handling life and life situations. However, when the circumstances changed and we were no longer in pursuit of food shelter and safety, we had lost the focus on us.What I’m finding out is that we make great roommates, but lousy partners. Angela G. Registered Nurse, New Jersey

It was a pretty eye opening experience.

I recently completed the “End your struggle with him in 30 days” course with Jayson Gaddis and would highly recommend it. It was a pretty eye opening experience, with informative and interesting content that really assisted me to be truly honest about the future of my relationship. Serena Robinson

This course has been powerful!

This course has been powerful! I literally can’t wait to devour the new material every week. Theresa Santa Barbara

Check out the Facebook Testimonials after ONLY two weeks into the course:

Jump in now and you also get 5 awesome
bonus materials as a gift gift (worth over $1000)

Here’s a closer look at each bonus resource you get access to as soon as you join the course:

Bonus #1
An Extra 2.5 hour interview with women just like you asking Jayson hard questions about their shut down man, what to say, what not to say, do, etc.

This recorded call is worth the course and more! The questions are raw, real, heart-wrenching, and inspiring as hell.

I’m pretty sure you will get an answer to your situation just by listening to other women like you going through something very similar.

Value $1,000
Bonus #2
A Private Community of Women

Are you trying to get help alone or with the same old support system with people that don’t totally get what’s going on? Then, jump into a sisterhood already done for you, that is full of amazing and inspiring women who truly get what’s happening with you and your man.

You will also:

  • Connect with like minded women who have overcome this exact issue
  • Connect with hundreds of women like you who are “in it” and determined to move past the frustrating dynamic with him.
  • Lean on other women who have been through this
  • Get accountability that will help you stay true to you and your needs
  • Get real answers to the relationship problems in front of you

Most of us cannot do it alone. Join a wonderful tribe of women like you who are getting what they want with their man right now! The moment you purchase the course, you’ll get access to this inspiring group of women who can and will help you.

Value: $ priceless
Bonus #3
How My Wife Got Me To Put Two Feet In:

A 2 hour recorded call with my wife, Ellen

This call blew everyone out of the water. Ellen shared her side of the story, her experience, what it was that she did that got me to change.

Here were just few responses from women after listening to this call:

Bonus #4
Self Love: The Key to Getting Your Non-Negotiable Needs Met By Him

This bonus class includes:

  • The biggest and most important non-negotiable need you have
  • What is Self-Love Anyway?
  • How To Attract Him To You- The Key To Increasing Your Self Worth And More!

 

Value: $197
Bonus #5

Why Men Are The Way They Are: Cracking The Man Code

In this eBook You Will learn:

  • What does it mean to be a man in today’s culture?
  • How to come back into connection from disconnection
  • A man’s greatest fears and what stands in the way of a man’s personal freedom
  • How to break free from the deep male social conditioning
  • What is the boy code and how you got “trained” to be a certain kind of man
  • The importance of rituals and rights of passage for today’s growth-oriented man
Value: $27

100% Money-Back Guarantee

You can’t go wrong with this incredible guarantee.

You have 30 days from the date of purchase to test out the training.  If you do the work and don’t feel that I’ve delivered on my promise, I’ll gladly refund 100% of your money.

However…

To be eligible for a refund, I require your completed homework from the first two modules, as well as a written description of the changes you were making and the results you got.  This means you must apply the course teachings to your life and your relationships. If you do the work and don’t get value, then I don’t deserve your money and I’ll gladly refund you 100% what you paid for the course.

I do this because I’m looking for serious and committed students only. I take my learning environment seriously and maintain a very high standard of truth, integrity, encouragement, and inspired, action-oriented learning.

Click here to read ‘Refund Policy’ below. I know for certain you have never tried anything like this. You have nothing to lose!

Normally $447, but for a limited time, get it for a special price:

$397

YES! I WANT TO END MY STRUGGLE WITH HIM NOW
Want a payment plan instead? Click the button above to see your payment options.